We lost my grandson at 26 weeks and my mother insisted he be buried with my dad. I have just found out that my brother and his family no longer go to the grave because of this I have been told that they are very angry about it. My brothers wife hates me, I don't know why and she always hangs round me when she's drunk, trying to kiss and cuddle me and always says "you think we don't like you but we do". My family and I have had years of being treated like rubbish by them and I really feel that this is the last straw but my youngest daughter (my oldest daughter lost the baby and she doesn't know what's been going on) is very upset by this and wants me to ignore it all. Help!!!!!
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A terrible loss for you all, I'm so very sorry. I can't understand why your brother and his family should be so angry at what appears to be a wonderful gesture; your father now with the grandson he never knew about.
I agree with Mumsy Gravy, there's no sense in adding to the pain you must be going through. If your brother and his family have taken the decision to no longer visit your father's grave than so be it.
You and your daughter will be able to and grieve for the grandson/son you've lost knowing that you will be left in peace to do so.
for you and your daughter.
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