Attraction.

Thank you Tanith that makes sense, I was thinking ..."Is she talking past life?"

I also wondered, because I fell in love with my husband's accent (Scottish, traces of). I could listen to him talk all day long

Greyduster, that is lovely!

I don't know really. I don't think I did like him all that much the first evening we spent together, but I liked the way he dressed, he had a lovely gentle sense of humour and he didn't mind me dragging him round art galleries on his days off! He has been the absolute love of my life for fifty years and he deserves a medal as big as a frying pan!

He was just very gentle, kind, good looking and had sparkly grey blue eyes. They sparkled until the very end. In his obit in the paper I wrote 'he was a true, gentle man' which summed him up completely.

Husband number 1 - his good looks but he turned out to be ugly inside, husband number 2- he was a colleague who immediately offered to give me a lift when my daughter's school phoned to say she was ill and didn't complain when she threw up in his car, then phoned me later to see how she was . Still together after 25 years!

His beautiful blue eyes. Certainly not the light blue corduroy suit he was wearing when I first saw him! Well, it was the early 70s!

Grannyknot as you ask, many years ago we were in to CB radio and belonged to a local enthusiasts club. There were lots of people we got know personally and made many friends but also many that we only ever spoke to on the radio but never met in person. Eventually several years later we were both at a meeting and as soon as I heard his voice I knew who it was without looking.

I don't know, but when he walked into the room I just knew instantly that he was the one.

Caretaker, that's just lovely.

Easy he was incredibly handsome!
Not too shabby 44 years on!!!

caretaker how romantic.

tanith what do mean?

His absolute beauty, unfortunately he wasn't beautiful on the inside

I was sitting in a pub with my mate when his brother walked into the bar with his new girlfriend. I went up to her to introduce myself and said " I'm going to marry you" she replied "Do you know I think you will" That spark is as real today 48 years later as it was then. I thank god for her every second of the day. The only girlfriend I have ever had.

His voice, as I knew the voice long before we met.

I don't know either, at first I thought he was smug but soon realised he was a very kind man who has really cared for me for 46 years. Very lucky.

I have know idea either! Pheremones? I just followed my instincts (probably very basic instincts ) but thise instincts were right. He danced a mean 'Gay Gordon's' too!

Do you know I honestly don't know. We married 6 months after meeting and have now been married for 52 years, so what ever it was it was pretty strong. It just seemed right. He is a very tolerant and a real family man. He has seen me through a couple of bad times in my life and I wouldn't be without him.

Piercing blue eyes and his intelligence

His eyes! Sparkly and looked full of fun (which he was!)