Date Night

It all gets so exhausting, I know sometimes it hasn't bothered me but at the moment it is. We have got a week off in July Nina1959, I have said that he can sort that out, it will be interesting to see what happens.

Kim, changing your environment does tend to help break habits. Not sure if a date night would be the answer but weekends away might be a good idea. Ring in the new as they say.
The other thing I thought of is that as long as you keep doing it all, he'll probably let you. What would happen if you stopped doing it?

My H is the same, phone calls, holidays, finances are all organized by me and have been for the past 40 + yrs. It does wrankle now and then but I've got used to it.
Sorry but I fail to see how date nights would make a difference to the habit he's got into. I do agree that it's good to spend time just being a couple. H and I go for days out, cinema and theatre trips or just out for a meal at a local gastro pub.

Not exactly but we sometimes have a cinema night when we find a good film, share the sofa and don't answer phones, mobiles or play with any other devices (except each other). Sometimes ibn a busy world I think we don't have a lot of time to just be with each other without distractions. I hope things pick up for you and yours.