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Husband can’t cope with new dog

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midgey Sun 05-Nov-17 20:07:40

Agree with the others. The dog will find a home, your husband is more important at this moment. Speak to the dogs home, any reputable home will wish to suit dog to new owners.

Baggs Sun 05-Nov-17 19:59:37

Your husband can't cope with the new dog. You said it. It's all you need to know. Get rid of the dog.

Ilovecheese Sun 05-Nov-17 19:58:31

Send the dog back, get one already trained.

lemongrove Sun 05-Nov-17 19:57:40

This depends on how much you really want to keep this new dog.Is it a really difficult dog? Rescue dogs do take time to settle in.
If it was a huge mistake, and your DH can’t cope with it all, and you feel the same, then regretfully take it back to the centre.Nobody wants you to be unhappy, and being a young dog will find a new owner.
I really like dogs, but feel that people come first.

ruthiek Sun 05-Nov-17 19:51:35

Can't believe I am saying this , after 45 years of having dogs, a month or so ago we got a 4 year old rescue , DH who has been a rock during a really awful year for both us , was the instigator in getting the dog but is now finding it hard because the dog is not trained at all , so do I push him to keep the dog or look after dh who seems to struggling with everything ?