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Told your toxic

(53 Posts)
midgey Wed 13-Dec-17 19:07:34

You were hurt and offended, unless you want to continue the relationship leave him to stew in his own juice. Plenty more fish in the sea!

Anniebach Wed 13-Dec-17 19:02:18

That is an awful thing to say , I couldn't accept it full stop

ooonana Wed 13-Dec-17 18:56:05

My live apart then partner of 16 years told me to listen to a radio programme which he said explained how he was feeling.
It was about toxic dysfunctional relationships. I felt insulted, and very hurt. It was then followed by an even more toxic email from him outlining all my faults. Am I wrong to have cancelled all holidays, outings and times out with him?
He is now sorry, trying to see me, mend fences etc having realised the fall out of his actions. In the past after previous tiffs I have always brought us together again.
I am refusing to see him for three months am I right or wrong please.