I see the previous thread has reached its maximum capacity, do inhale started this one, perhaps someone can think of a better heading.
Haven't been on for a while as sometimes the situation just gets too much.
Smileless I read your post and I think it was extremely wise to take that decision to leave your home of 28 years, it was impossible living so close to your son and is family,mat I'll a hard thing to do.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!