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Day6 Tue 13-Feb-18 22:43:32

Oh that is awful.

It is a betrayal which is humiliating and degrading Npanteli.

If you "want to forgive him and stay married" of course you can, but you will have to do heck of a lot of talking and also try to forget what has happened.

I think that may prove to be very difficult. Best wishes to you.

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Anniebach Tue 13-Feb-18 22:30:18

I am so sorry, you must be suffering greatly . May I ask? Did he tell you or someone else?

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Npanteli61 Tue 13-Feb-18 22:23:22

I found out yesterday that my second husband of 13 years has been regularly seeing prositutes for the last 3 years. He has said he is very sorry and hates himself for doing it. Loves me and doesn’t want the marriage to end. I am devastated. He is my best friend and soul mate but I just can’t get my head around it all. I want to forgive him and stay married but is it possible. We only moved 4 weeks ago to be nearer the grandchildren, so at the moment I have no friends around me for support.

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