Hi. Some of you might remember that I had to leave the UK together with my daughter after several years to escape an abusive relationship. Additionally, my ex had serious mental health issues. He is now suicidal.
Recently his mum did not send me a birthday card (she sent one to my daughter) and I was wondering whether she blames me that he ended up in this state given we had a tough time over the years with my daughter being ill (something she inherited from me) so we suffered financially and mentally. However, when she got better and my ex's parents encouraged him to go back to work he did not seem that interested (possibly due to mental issues) and neither was he too keen on me working.
Should I be feeling sad and guilty for making the situation worse by leaving ?
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