I am not sure if I am looking for help or just an ear. I have been dealing with my situation since March 2017. It was the year my oldest grandson turned 7. Up until that month, life was amazing. I had 4 grandson and I was the happiest Mimi in the world.
We had our oldest grandson for the weekend and on Sunday he went home. the next weekend we got the worst news of our lives. My son called and said his ex wife told him that none of us would ever see our grandson again. he asked why and was never given an explanation except that our grandson was caught touching his half sister inapproprietly and that we were to blame. My world ended that day.
Here is a little insight to my story.
My grandson was born in Jan of 2010. I was thrilled and overjoyed. I helped raise my grandson for the first year of his life since my son and his girlfriend were young. I loved my grandson. He was amazing. My son married his girlfriend when our grandson was 7 months old and they were divorced 10 months later. That is where my story starts. It explains the daughter in law. Somehow she got the divorce without my sons knowledge. She even filed paperwork while living with him. He had no idea.
then she filed papers saying my son was abusive and that was thrown out of court because my ex daughter in law told the judge that my son was the best dad ever. When asked why she filed the papers for abuse she told the judge she was mad.
So long story short, we have had lies, lots of lies, and I was accused of some sort of inappropriete behavior which i was never charged with. Just hear say. She said CPS was called. Which is was not. Lie Number 57.
So today, two years later, no word from my grandson, no pictures, no talks, no visits. She ignores us completely and has now sent my son petition for adoption papers. Why because he hasnt seen his son in two years. Why, because she wont let us see him. She is a horrible person.
Is there anything I can do.
Silent treatment - son
Caught in the act - neighbours
How to say it - 'no'