TB what a miserable situation to be in. The feeling of knowing it is all going to happen again and again is awful.
There are very few marriages where there are no disagreement we are all individuals with our own opinions, likes, dislikes.
In my marriage we tend to let things go and get on with the day.
What would I do in your situation,
get ready and go out for the day, if it continued when I got back the following day I'd take myself off for a few days somewhere interesting budget permitting.
I would begin making a life for myself outside of the marriage but carry on as normal at home.
Life can be short and we have to make every day count.
Best of luck and a Happy New Year
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