Thankyou so much for your kind comments and support. Gp is off Mondays at the moment,he has always dicussed my sons 'case 'with me,with my son's agreement. The drink and medications have been an ongoing problem ,rehab many times.
I was left my husbands money but it has gone to the probate court and could be 6 to 12 months. I have had to wait for the money and it is so hard on just my pension. I had no savings as I continually gave my son drips of it day by day. He had met a woman and stayed a few days with her,she was 8 years older than him . She saw some womens phone numbers on his phone and threw him out,her family started phoning his phone and the house phone hundreds of times a day. I had to call police as they were threatening to firebomb my house and to beat him up. He started drinking heavily and not sleeping for 5 nights ,as he was frightened in the night,he armed himself with big spanners,a van pulled up outside the hedge,he ran out and was going to attack the man,he did not recognise the neighbour. Another neighbour phoned the police. They didn't press charges,but gave him a warning. He has no money,no friends,nowhere to go. Now we are trapped here together.