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Too many partners

(62 Posts)
Shanavine Wed 20-May-20 23:12:43

Is 4 new sexual partners in 8 months too much or am I prude

Shanavine Thu 21-May-20 12:31:22

Can't

Shanavine Thu 21-May-20 12:31:04

I am speaking of my current girlfriend
I was number 4 been together a year and it still bothers me
I know I have no right to judge but I still can shake this feeling

vampirequeen Thu 21-May-20 12:08:56

"Seriously perhaps the OP has no self respect and needs to do some work on herself to raise her self esteem."

Why? Nothing wrong with having a healthy sex life. Maybe the OP simply likes variety or wants to enjoy sex without commitment.

trisher Thu 21-May-20 12:07:51

vampirequeen grin
3nanny6 I'm not sure she's into working on herself.
Mind I've just realised the OP asks "or am I a prude" so it's someone else with the lovers. The question now being how does she know about them?

3nanny6 Thu 21-May-20 12:01:23

Four new partners is a lot in 8 months and hopefully you have remembered to practice "safe sex", although if you are changing partners like changing from a different pair of shoes the safe sex aspect may not have been observed.
Seriously perhaps the OP has no self respect and needs to do some work on herself to raise her self esteem.

vampirequeen Thu 21-May-20 11:57:49

Ooh now there's an image to play with. Like trophies hanging off the wall to be taken down occasionally grin

trisher Thu 21-May-20 11:54:01

As it's 4new partners do you suppose there are still old ones hanging about as well?

MissAdventure Thu 21-May-20 11:53:40

smile
Pardon the pun!

vampirequeen Thu 21-May-20 11:49:22

I was thinking about the problems of juggling 4 lovers. I was never very good at keeping lots of balls in the air at the same time.

Callistemon Thu 21-May-20 11:19:03

vampirequeen you make it sound like a prison sentence!
Is that concurrent or consecutive?

grin

It brings a new meaning to home schooling annsixty

Callistemon Thu 21-May-20 11:15:42

Are you all locked down together?
How exciting.
A bit tiring though.

annsixty Thu 21-May-20 10:16:24

Don’t forget people are getting very bored and teenagers haven’t been at school for weeks....

Grammaretto Thu 21-May-20 10:16:06

She's asking if she's the only prude here. It looks like she is wink

FlexibleFriend Thu 21-May-20 10:01:55

I thought he was a young grandad from his previous post.

Grandad1943 Thu 21-May-20 09:20:36

Lucca Quote [ Op has not come back. Probably a bit busy.....] End Quote.

OP not coming back, very much not unusual on this forum these days. However, in the case of this OP, she is probably "slapping around" somewhere. ?

Puzzler61 Thu 21-May-20 09:13:12

Oh Lucca good point -
I assumed OP was posing the question for herself. (Message to self - never presume).

Puzzler61 Thu 21-May-20 09:11:51

If you’re a gran Shanavine how do you find the time and energy? ?
Only advice I have to add is “practice safe sex always”.
There are other diseases around, not only Civid-19.

Lucca Thu 21-May-20 09:10:27

Op has not come back. Probably a bit busy.....

Actually I feel she may have been talking about a friend or relative, not herself.

Grandad1943 Thu 21-May-20 09:07:49

MawB, I know some men are very well built, but two metres is stretching things a bit I feel. ?

Grandad1943 Thu 21-May-20 09:04:46

As my old mother use to say "if one is not enough, one dozen ain't too many". ???

MawB Thu 21-May-20 09:03:58

Under social distancing regulations, nothing short of incredible!

Wibby Thu 21-May-20 09:01:55

lucky person! wink

Dillyduck Thu 21-May-20 08:57:04

Don't judge.

vampirequeen Thu 21-May-20 06:14:17

At the same time? Concurrent or each in their own time frame? What age?

Loislovesstewie Thu 21-May-20 06:13:44

No-one else's business apart from the participants.
I am curious as to why you are asking though?