Can I just ask, and I don’t mean to offend in any way, so sorry in advance if I do.....but it seems you’ve been so hurt by your family, with only one brother that you have a good relationship with, left. Why do you want to write this account at all? I can see that you’d like future generations to know things. We’ve actually made a photo video of our life, which covers all the children’s lives as well. There are snippets of our parents, who we didn’t get on with...but they weren’t abusers. Personally, I’m all for being straight and honest...and wouldn’t flannel it at all. If you’re going to write this history, the abuse is part of it, and I would want to know if I were your sibling. If he really cares for you, it shouldn’t turn him away, but if he does find out somehow...years from now, he may be angry you didn’t tell him. Good luck whatever you choose to do.?