47 years for us this August. Not all perfect by any means. In the early years my parents didn't like him. We were broke and constant carping from my parents added unnecessarily to the stress of no money and a small baby. We somehow weathered it all and are very happy now. Looking back to those early years made me determined not to put my own daughter through what my parents put us through. Like a previous poster, I think we were too stubborn to give in, plus no money for separate houses and neither of us were prepared to return to the family home
. We are very lucky to have had many good years since those far off days.