Fed up with daughter

My daughter left her abusive and controlling husband. Within a fortnight she was an ,'item', with a new man, who we are watching become controlling too.

Daughter has two children who are very unhappy and witnessing this new relationship, and there's no real concern for them, their mum has put her blinkers on, and can't see what's happening.

At present we can keep an eye on things but now she's planning to move to boyfriends' area (60 miles from us). I've not said anything to her but she knows how I feel.

I can't believe that she's going to move her children to a completely new area on the basis of a boyfriend and his job as a forklift (which he can do anywhere). This will impact on the children seeing their father, as well as us. That's not even considering that we moved a fair distance to be close to her at her bequest.

I'm angry, hurting but more importantly VERY worried