Online dating sites/trust issues

Yay! Have a great get-away ?.

Sounds like you dodged a bullet here. Had you not seen his still active online profile, you would have ended up stuck settling for less than great physical chemistry and trying to get his faulty hardware to operate properly. That doesn't sound too appealing in itself, but the lying and his emotional fragility in the face of being caught just screams Narcissist Nonfunctional Prick. I know it's disappointing to have to start over with the search, but you are better off solo than with this mess.

Thank you all for your solid advice! I'm disappointed that this relationship was a bust but happy that I found all this out now versus later. Now I am busy planning a small getaway for myself for mid June, yay!
Thanks again for your wonderful support!

You have learnt from this and well rid of him, good job you found out.

As much as I would like to overlook his error in judgement, it's impossible to do that. My trust was totally broken and like a nice piece of broken china it can't be repaired ):

As much as I usually distrust the 'Dump Him!' brigade (it seems to be a knee jerk reaction to any relationship problems), the continuing online presence would be too much for me. He's clearly keeping his options open. Thing is, there are lots more single older women around than men, so easy pickings.

Maybe don't be an easy pick.

Get rid immediately! If his messages scare the hell out of you then that is your warning , take care , block him , move on. Be careful and you know you deserve better.

Hmmm, anything that sets your radar off, end it before its begun...

Block him and move on with your life he will not change

Some men are "players" and unfortunately for you, he's one. You definitely deserve better.

You are well rid of him. Move on.