Hello everyone
I am new to this forum but loving it so far!
I am looking for a bit of advice if possible please.
I am due to retire from my job in the NHS in a month.
However my husband who has worked overseas for most of our married life retired about 5 years ago.
I think we are already getting on each other’s nerves!
He hurt his back 3 years ago quite badly so cannot do the activities I love eg cycling, running , walking and I feel guilty going out and leaving him at home alone.
I have suggested a lot of hobbies for him but nothing happens
He is becoming entirely dependant on me to find him things to do. I have let him take over most of our chickens care and bought him two beehives which he hasn’t bothered to build.
I don’t think he’s depressed but lacks any oomph!
I feel I want to discover me and have loads of plans but don’t feel able to do them. I think I am turning into his carer.
I think we both deserve to enjoy our retirement but he saps my energy.
He is a very morose type personality and not easy to talk to at all. If I asked he would say he’s fine.
Any suggestions welcome and thank you for reading
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