Just a bit of background..I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, arthritis and severe depression (due to the pain) about 2 years ago. Before then I ran my own business, did all the house work etc etc. Both my partner and I grew up without a mother...I never had one and my hubby's ran off when he was 10 after his dad died
My point there is I don't have a reference on being a mum and even though my hubby went through that he's a fantastic dad (I know cuz mine was fantastic). Hence I believe dad's are the most important parent.
Anyway, I don't know how good I was...they were definitely wanted and loved from day one x
But since his return from university my oldest son who is the most gregarious, laid back, loving guy ever, he seems to really dislike and resent me. I know my illness makes me paranoid at times but out of all 3 of my kids I would never have imagined it would be him acting this way.
He's already confirmed he doesn't believe in fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue or any illness under that umbrella. Even though he's seen me unable to anything. Also after a few drinks one night he blasted me for lying around all day while dad did everything. Completely forgetting I ran a business and still cooked n cleaned and sorted out forms for school etc... I honestly don't know what I've done wrong here? My hubby thinks I'm imaging it or over thinking it but it's honestly breaking my heart...he is closer to dad but he still loved me and came to me with problems...but now he barely looks me in the eye... my therapist said to ask them if they think I've been a good mum....he ummrd and ahhed for a while before saying I suppose so....I'm devastated any ideas on getting him to open up greatly appreciated
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧