My husband is wonderful and I love him dearly but he has low moods quite often that I don’t know how to deal with. I am a fixer and organiser and just want to make him happier. We have had a bit of a year with my mum dying, me getting covid for 3 months, then when were due to go away on holiday I sprained my knee and could not fly. I am still a bit stiff kneed but on the mend. However I do feel that this is a lot to do with his low mood. My husband is retired and I retired in February. We had all these lovely plans to holiday etc but it just seems something ends and another ailment arises. My husband has ailments that he won’t even consider getting sorted as he worries it’s something more serious. He has a hernia that he won’t get fixed, needs a visit to the dentist for a very sensitive tooth and he needs to get his eyes tested. He just won’t sort it. We have both been married before and now he gets stressed with anything to do with seeing family. His or mine. Even going out for a few hours is stressful as he gets angry when driving. I know I can’t lead his life for him but I want to help him
To go through chemo therapy or choose not to?