My husband is a misery Guts, and is pulling me down with him! He's tired, miserable, and in pain which I sympathize with. He's had blood tests, been for x-rays and scans and nothing suggests any abnormalities beyond wear and tear (he's in his 70's). And has been given pain killers that are effective IF he takes them.
But he's miserable, negative about everything, and hard work. Part of his poor mood is worry about me (I'm not particularly worried). I had an accident in June when I blacked out and fell breaking my tail bone, my ankle and became concussed. When at the hospital, I was found to be very anaemic, and since I've been having multiple appointments at the hospital every week.
Unfortunately I don't drive so have been unable to get to the hospital independent, this means that my husband has come with me, which he hates. I think this has contributed to his low mood.
He claims to not want food (he eats well enough though), just says he's not well and can't be bothered. He's driving me potty! And pulling me down with him. I'm thoroughly fed up with trying to cheer him up, whilst putting up with unpleasant tests and procedures. I recognise it's not his fault. I'm certain that he is depressed, but he doesn't want to get better, it's as though he is enjoying being a misery Guts.
How do I deal with him?
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic
Should women have equal pay and opportunities?
Being quizzed by chemist's assistant in Boots.