I found retirement is the worst time for relationships.
Late DH and I had to go to couple's counselling when we retired. He wanted me home and and I felt released to do my own thing. Our expectations were not aligned.
Many relationships do become unstuck at retirement, because issues that were buried for years due to bringing up.and family and working, come to a head.
We did stay together in the end, but he suddenly died when we had just bought a smaller house near our gc. Now I can do what I want when I want!
You need to find out together what you really need and come to a compromise. Maybe you can travel with a friend, or on your own, and he can pursue his hobby. Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't be individuals with needs.
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