My son is 42 and since he’s been 16 or so relatives have asked first him, and since he left home , me, this impertinent question.
He would just say no …not interested! This stunned them usually! But he lives quite happily alone …has plenty of freinds Is a handy babysitter to many of them …and generally gets on with his life. I or his dad have never asked him about his sexuality as we consider it’s none of our business. He did once live with a very nice girl who already had a little boy of three ( he knew her from school)….but she eventually went back to her partner. He’s lived alone ever since.My son is not a mummies boy…or incapable as a human being because he chooses to be alone. He’s had his own place since he was 19/20. I invite him for Sunday lunch about once every three weeks and he does little jobs , or heavy lifting for me and , we get on fine… he doesn’t bring his ironing ,..he’s a smashing cook… keeps his place reasonable and always worked!
Now his dad has finially gone into full time residential care ( Alzheimer’s) after me beginning to have failing health, and being unable now to lift him and cope with his falls and aggression, he visits him twice a week … he’s always been a lovely young man , who sees his older sister and her kids regularly, and has matured into a thoughtful man on brink of middle age. He’s never ill…takes care of himself and bothers nobody. He just wants to be left to decide his life in his way not forgetting responsibilities to his close family. So what right have people to ask him impertinent questions or to try and wheedle answers from him that he doesn’t want to give. I would personally slap them .