Hollycat
Back in the ‘70’s in the days when “women could have everything” and when I had my children, the pressure was NOT to breastfeed, You gave birth, were taken back to bed and told you were not to get out of it for two days! They cleaned you up and the baby arrived with a nurse and a tiny bottle of milk. This was the Whittington Hospital in Highgate, London. The ward had 16 mothers in it, the only one who breastfed was an American who insisted on it. Everyone, including the nurses thought she was mad. My baby was a forceps delivery so I had to stay in for 10 days., rather than the usual 7. When I left I was presented with a “Bounty Box” and four of the tiny bottles of milk to take home. At a checkup with my own GP he told me not to use formula milk saying it was only introduced in the war because milk production couldn’t be guaranteed. He told me to feed the baby on silver top milk, two parts milk and one part boiled water with a teaspoon of sugar. He was adamant the milk shouldn’t be My second child, five years later, but in Chase Farm Hospital, Enfield, was exactly the same, only this time I was sent home after only two days. None of my friends breastfed either. Both have grown up disgustingly healthy and are 53 and 48 respectively. I can’t see the problem.
Exactly the same here. I gave birth through the 70's, in London hospitals, and didn't want to breastfeed.
The hospital were fine - got the Bounty Bags and some SMA formula - all good.👍
They are now mid 40's, and are completely healthy.
How to feed needs to be the choice of the woman - it has nothing to do with anyone else, professional or family.
I've never heard of all those "rules" for grandparents to follow though - my bottle feeding daughter used to want me visiting when she had her four kids, so that she could have a bit of chill time, and the odd glass of wine, while I did some feeding, changing, looking after the other children and whatever else.😉