Much has been written on this topic, I'm sure.
For the last 2 months I'm increasingly fed up/stressed. DH has memory issues and if he gets stressed , can't think straight and can act strangely. I'm getting my head round all this, and we have seen the memory clinic, awaiting a scan. My main problem is he wants to do everything I do, go where I go etc.
I do see friends for coffee, he has none anymore.
Gave up golf a few years ago as he's fed up with it, won't join a friends walking football team, so no hobbies at all.
If I start housework he's joining in which I guess is OK by most women!
But can be irritating. If I'm going shopping, he's ready to go too.
Today he asked why I seemed fed up, so I said we are together too much..he hit the roof, made it a drama, feels the marriage is in trouble and he is very happy just being with me. Why am I not happy. In the end I asked him to ignore my remarks and let's get on with the day rather than spoil it.
Do other women feel guilty if they organise seeing friends when DH are just at home? I really want to move on from feeling like this as its quite depressing.
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