I wonder if ppl could shed some light on this pls.
I have realised I dont like who I become when I am with certain ppl. In line with individual responsibility which I am a firm believer of, this contradicts it. I I take full responsibility for my thoughts, feelings behaviours etc then how can this happen? Or am I expecting too much of myself.
I use the analogy of a group of drinkers. If I dont want to drink anymore and I continue to hang out with the same ppl I used to drink with , who still behave the same way and are perfectly happy to drink the same amount, is it only a question of time before I startt drinking again?
why do ppl think?
My exact situation isn't actually drinking. It is behaving a certain way with a group of ppl , a way I used to behave and dont now. I miss them and they miss me but I fear hanging out with them again as I think I will resort to old behaviours again? Is this weakness on my part?
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