"Why are you so interested?"
"Didn't we talk about this last time? Nothing's really changed. How is YOUR family? What's new in your life?"
"Oh, I'm here to get away from the boring stuff in my life and see some beautiful things outdoors! Do you happen to know what kind of tree that is? It's lovely, isn't it?"
"Everything is fine with me. How are things in your life?"
"My daughter? Why on earth do you want to know?"
"I hope you'll forgive me, but I really don't like talking about my family, even with my very closest friends. It's a real boundary I have."
"I didn't come here to talk about that; let's not get into it."
"I'm not comfortable with your questions. I'm not sure why you're asking me these things."
"I tell you what, let's not get into that again. Let's just enjoy the peace in nature--that's what I came for, not jabbering about my boring old family and friends."
"My daughter? Oh, I'm sorry to interrupt but I've just noticed what a pretty jumper you have on. Where did you get it?" (Ask her about something she's wearing.) "Where do you shop for clothes, or do you use catalogs? My favorite shops are . . . Where do you shop for food? Are the prices good?" Just get her talking about herself and what she buys. Drag other people into the conversation: "We were talking about food prices. Where do YOU shop?"
She sounds dreadful.
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