Dating younger men

I would also be very cautious - he might have a bet going on with some mates - M.I.L.F springs to mind.

I know someone who loves older women, and he likes them to look their age, too.

Takes all sorts, after all.

I think there are probs some 65 year old women who look 40, but can only think of celebrities who have a lot of ‘help’.
Cher and Lulu looked much younger in their sixties but are not looking like that now, even with everything lifted and filled.

Oh OP - in your dreams! He may be charming and a flatterer but is very unusual indeed to fancy a 65-year old woman in the way you seem to think he does.
You may think you pass for 40 but it is highly unlikely. My 41year old youngest D was recently refused a bottle of wine at an M&S because she didn’t carry ID. That doesn’t happen in your 60’s!
Perhaps he is gay and you are what is colloquially known as a “beard” -a slang term, American in origin, describing a person who is used, knowingly or unknowingly, as a date, romantic partner (boyfriend or girlfriend) often to deflect attention.
Perhaps he thinks you have money- there have been sad cases of gay older men befriended, fleeced of their savings and in one case I can think of, actually murdered by the lover.
Perhaps he is a natural flirt or charmer.
But don’t kid yourself, there is no fool like an old fool.

Aw, bless. I think he's missing his Mum.

You are 65 but you look 25 years younger! Sorry love but I’m actually laughing at that! I’m not that gullible would I date a man of 30 I’m 67 nope I wouldn’t date a man much younger than my sons thanks. Happily married to a man who is 5 years younger than me though.

I wouldn't date a younger man...

Sorry to say, he’s probably after your advice/ wisdom maybe? A 65 year old does not look 40……..

Babs03

Well, if a young man made a play for me I would assume he had lost his glasses. And 'no' I can't imagine anything worse than dating an immature young man who probably still gets his mum to do his laundry, is bad enough being married to an immature older man who gets me to do his laundry.

😂😂😂

He’s probably been egged on by his mates. You could end up looking totally foolish.

Well said Babs!! I get that !!

Well, if a young man made a play for me I would assume he had lost his glasses. And 'no' I can't imagine anything worse than dating an immature young man who probably still gets his mum to do his laundry, is bad enough being married to an immature older man who gets me to do his laundry.

Would you have a bit of sense......

Grandmabatty

Aye, right

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It's a bit of a trend at the moment for younger men to sleep with older women, although not usually with quite such a large age gap. Are you sure you aren't confusing a bit of office banter with genuine romantic interest?

If you have serious romantic thoughts forget it, there are all sorts of unpleasant motives young men may have, however much you are flattered by the attention be careful.

PS. It's not still school holidays, is it?
It is in Australia.

Yeh, I've had umpteen younger men but they've all been a bit self-obsessed so I'm upping my game. I'm now waiting for Rupert Murdoch's next divorce so I can try my luck with a comfortable father-figure.

PS. It's not still school holidays, is it?

Act your age, not your shoe size?

He could just be being polite to an older woman because his mother brought him up well.

Oh yes, take note of Grannynannywanny's post.

really?

Give him a chance if you want but don’t give him your bank details.

I smell a journalist ‘fishing’….

Not sure this is a genuine post, but …..

There’s a toyboy and there’s cradle snatching!

In your dreams new poster.