I m not so sure you should be blaming him It’s his lifestyle why should you be the one to change it Perhaps he thinks your lifestyle is the wrong way
We are what we are, if you care or love someone you accept that some people are different to you if you enjoy his company as much as you say you do, then you would accept his mess and inability to programme his brain the same way as yours
If he’s kind caring and treats you right what matters if he’s tidy or lives in a mess it’s his mess anyway I m presuming he’s not asking you to clear or clean his house up
Anyway why can’t you visit and spend a few hours in a mess it’s the person not the house that you should be looking forward to seeing
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