Feeling ignored

I think she is just thoughtless. Why not justtalk to her and tell her how you feel, not in an accusatory, whiny way, but just comment that you ha dhoped that while they are in your home you had hoped to spende more time together.

If they ar going for a walk just say lovely I wuld enjoy that and put your coat on.

Nothing gets resolvedunless so eone mentions it.

If it is her old family home I can see why she might be doing this. She just feels she's back home. Enjoy the time she is in the house, and maybe also suggest some joint trips.

I think I am a bit in the middle on this one.

Presumably your house used to be your daughter's home?
Or the area did?

It is natural for her to want to see her frieds while she is in the area.
And presumably you are seeing your daugher and family before and after they have gone out?

For me, it would be a question of whether they are doing this too much. Which they may be.

And yes to everything Astitchintime says.

Perhaps she was waiting for you to say ‘just give me a minute to put on my coat and grab the dog lead and I’ll come with you’. Or maybe she thought you might like a little peace and quiet??