Unfaithful husband?

LucyAnna5

The Hummingbird Mysteries

Cosy crime?

I think not!

Plus prequel and sequel .

The Hummingbird Mysteries

I’ve designed my own book covers. I”ll give that a good when the time is right.

Oh yes, I can imagine it as a series.…..😀

And don’t forget the cane sixandahalf …perhaps down the spine

Thank you.

I can picture the book cover now. An embossed hummingbird pink and gold on the upper right side.

kittylester

JamesandJon33

Storm in a teacup.

Boom boom!

Good title for the story though !

JamesandJon33

Storm in a teacup.

Boom boom!

I'd start looking for a care home.
Stay in the house, Clare!

Make yourself a cuppa in it, leave the empty box where he can see it and start using the walking cane making the excuse that you have hurt your ankle.

ClareAB
Well you've managed to keep this nonsense going for 6 pages.

Don't you have any hobbies?

ClareAB I am sorry if you have been hurt . It is a very strange set of circumstances. My inclination is to say you clearly do not have a happy marriage, you do not love your husband, you can visualise a happier life living on your own, and could manage OK financially. If all that is true, the cup and saucer and the cane are not the key issue - you sound as if you want to leave anyway. So I wish you well and hope you can soon find a way ahead where you are much happier.

ClareAB

Thank you. It's going to be a tough year ahead. Walking away from my dream cottage I've spent 8 years renovating as my home for life is gonna be a wrench. But it feels like a gilded cage now. Im not frightened to have a small house and income. I bought up 3 boys on my own on a nurses salary. I now have 3 gorgeous granddaughters. So I'm walking towards independence and peace. It will be fine ultimately ✊️

Why the hell do you have to walk away? Kick his sorry arse out!

Yes, good luck with the fiction writing - but don’t give up the day job……

Well that filled a gap in my Sunday morning.
Onto the next one.
Good luck with the writing.

Crete is Greece.
Shirley went to Mykonos, I think.

Do you think Tom Conti is still there? I might go myself, although I suppose he is what you might term 'elderly' now.

Was it Greece or Crete Shirley Valentine went to ?

That story has already been written.

Storm in a teacup.

Oh well, I didn’t have anything much else to do . It’s been horrible weather…….

LucyAnna5

ClareAB

David49

I really cant comment on your situation, only you can decide what is tolerable and what isnt, I remarried 3 yrs ago and will recount my wifes story
She divorced her husband at 60, we had a few dates, curiously I asked why she left, "we did nothing together and I havnt had a cuddle for 10 yrs". That sounds pretty grim to me, so we make sure we cuddle a lot and we share a lot of common interests.

My only comment on a month in Crete is " absence makes the heart wander", it sounds like you are well on the way to separate lives already.

'I can't comment' yet you did. Im so happy for you in your smug contentment.

Rather unpleasant

It is, isn't it!

I do think now that this is one of those unbelievable stories because it seems to be not credible, then, when advice is given, the OP turn on posters.

It happens and we waste our time.

Goodness, that must have taken a bit of searching!
Do you have a link, please?

I've just googled Gransnet. The reviews state they're great for pension advice, but tend to pile on posters who ask for emotional support in complex situations in relationships. And this has proved the point.

SORES

VERY unpleasant !
after David49 shared

Clare - perhaps you could take this sorry tale of yours
over to Mumsnet, see what the barracuddas decide ?!

I know exactly what the barracudas on Mumsnet will say. LTB
Leave the Bastard.
We often only hear one side of the story, your comment tell a lot about the other side, maybe something you said put him off.