Christmas

Last Christmas a minor tiff lead to one of my daughters breaking all contact with her siblings.
We always spend several days together over Christmas and my birthday and I supposed that would carry on, with aggrieved daughter absent if she chose. However another daughter has proposed we just meet one afternoon at the pub.
I accept that things change over time but this arrangement leaves me alone for Christmas Day and Boxing Day and I am so hurt. The upset last year did not involve me and I have close contact with them all but they will all be elsewhere having fun with their own families and I feel forgotten.