I am in a relationship with my fiancee who I love enormously.
The big thing for me in the relationship is that about 6 months in she just stopped shiwing all sense of love, affection and intimacy.
Now the big thing here is that as a teenager she was raped. She has told me that and numerous other things that are to say the least, unpleasant.
It's just the complete lack of affection for me that is really getting me down.
She shows it to her kids and the dogs but for me, nothing.
I have raised it but she just dismisses it and tells me if I don't like it then I should go find someone else.
I intend to marry this woman and have kids together but all this is making me doubt whether we will work. I just feel completely lonely and if I'm honest a little lost.
She used to initiate intimacy and affection on a regular basis and then It was like a switch was pressed and it's gone.
She doesn't mind me initiating sometimes but even that can be a sticking point.
Everything else in the relationship is there, just this and I feel bad about it because of her past. I just don't know how to solve it.
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