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What no longer bothers you (now you are older!)? You could win a fabulous L'Oreal goodie bag worth £200! NOW CLOSED

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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 26-Jan-15 11:31:12

Talk to L'Oreal about the things that no longer bother you (now you are older!) and you could win a fabulous goodie bag full of L'Oreal must-haves worth £200!

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Cailin7 Wed 28-Jan-15 15:13:15

I am much more confident and do not worry what anyone thinks, or about making a fool of myself. A little nonsense now and then..

jodiecrossley1 Wed 28-Jan-15 15:12:36

I don't care what people think of me anymore, I am who I am and if people don't like it they don't have to spend time with me!

liane1987 Wed 28-Jan-15 15:07:21

About my looks....when i aged i realised friends and family were the most important things. I started to not care what others thought of me...with age defiently brings happiness :-)

salvagebrav Wed 28-Jan-15 15:04:18

I am no longer with my grey hair, I quite like it. I think my grey hair adds character.

davidhur Wed 28-Jan-15 15:01:36

going grey and losing my hair, but now ive decided just to shave it all off and i wear some funny hats, thats my new hobby hat shopping .

maryandbuzz1 Wed 28-Jan-15 15:00:37

It doesn't bother me about how I look on the beach. There are so many shapes and sizes mine can't be the worst!

kellyjane37 Wed 28-Jan-15 14:57:18

i used to get upset when old friends and siblings got together for a night out ect and i never got invited ect,(as moved out of london) parties , since having my son who autistic it changed my life completley , all i care and worry about is my family unit, and how we can all grow stronger each day together x

pgwynne Wed 28-Jan-15 14:57:15

I am now 45, 46 in March. I don't regard myself as being old at all. I think that it all in the mind. I go to the gym twice a week to do Body Attack workouts etc, do as much cycling with the family as I can. I may be going grey but hey, it can be dyed quite easily. We all look after ourselves much better now days, much better than our parents did.

alabaster Wed 28-Jan-15 14:55:11

Having retired, not being defined by the job that I did. I never felt this but others seemed to.

sscrase Wed 28-Jan-15 14:54:11

New music, I find it all very manufactured and avoid at all times.

catmiaow Wed 28-Jan-15 14:49:16

wearing a shorter top, I hate my elbows normally but now I don't care what people think.

smeeth99 Wed 28-Jan-15 12:20:14

What other people think of me, and their opinions of me.

I like who I am, so I don't really care whether anyone else does or not.. except immediate family & friends of course, but I know they like me ;)

Spidergran Wed 28-Jan-15 10:19:00

Breaking wind in public (blush). When I was younger I assumed I was the only person in the whole world who ever broke wind and would have died from embarassment if it had happened in public. Now I would just say 'excuse me' and carry on with life. It was a revelation to find out EVERYBODY in the world breaks wind (smile) x

elsiemac Wed 28-Jan-15 10:08:12

I suffer from depression and the black cloud is certainly there right now.

But do you know something ......... it no longer bothers me because I know now from experience that it will pass and I will enjoy my walks along the seashore again soon!!!

RR

mpsandy Tue 27-Jan-15 22:28:49

My eye brows! I used to pluck my eye brows every 3 or 4 days but now just leave them and do occasionally. They have grey/silver hairs in them anyway now!

Phoebes Tue 27-Jan-15 22:25:37

I no longer feel self-conscious because at long last I have realised that everyone is so wrapped up in themselves that they really don't think about anyone else!!!
There are some advantages in getting older!

Tegan Tue 27-Jan-15 22:09:02

I no longer worry about my fat legs; they haven't seen the light of day for so many years they probably think they don't exist any more....

frederickwilson Tue 27-Jan-15 21:58:16

when you are retired life is to short to keep on worrying about whats around the corner so i always look on the bright side of life

CHOCOAJ Tue 27-Jan-15 21:44:38

I am no longer bothered about material things i prefer to spent my money on doing things. Also if things go wrong i don't stress as much.

grannykent Tue 27-Jan-15 21:40:22

I dress to please myself as I realise strangers are most unlikely either to notice what I am wearing or be judgemental. Comments from my husband/friends are appreciated but no longer sought or worried about my opinion is really the only one that matters to me now. I am honest with myself to know which days I am looking ok and which days not -i do not stress about the "not so good days" anymore -next day might be better!

carow48 Tue 27-Jan-15 21:38:28

Time - I stopped wearing a watch the day I retired nearly 4 years ago and it has been liberating!

tinysidsmum Tue 27-Jan-15 21:09:55

I no longer care what other people think of me. If you don't like what you see walk away x

sallyb75 Tue 27-Jan-15 20:52:49

I don't care if I wear make up out as I'm not out to pull anymore. I've learnt that of someone likes me they'll like me in my bare skin. Same goes for my body if it's really that important them they're not worth having x

BANKY9 Tue 27-Jan-15 19:53:27

everything that used to stress me out and worry me now goes above my head life is far too short to worry about anything

marybt4 Tue 27-Jan-15 19:22:24

I don't worry about speaking up if I have something to say. I also used to buy something new to wear whenever I was going on an evening out (probably because I have never gone out that much in the evenings) but now I look in my wardrobe - I've loads of lovely clothes in there and don't feel the need to wear something new like I used to do.