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Share your funeral wishes with Co-op Funeralcare - £300 voucher to be won! NOW CLOSED

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EmmaGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 28-Sept-17 11:41:23

Thinking ahead to a time when you will no longer be here is undoubtedly not a pleasant thought. The majority of us plan other big life events such as birthdays, weddings, baby showers and/or anniversaries down to a tee, however when it comes to funerals very few of us have detailed plans in place. If there's something in particular you have in mind, whether it’s something beautiful, something personal, or even something humorous, Co-op Funeralcare would like to know.

Here’s what David Collingwood, Head of Operations for Co-op Funeralcare has to say: “Funerals are very much about personal choice and reflecting the personality and interests of an individual. This is becoming increasingly evident through the growth we’ve seen in people choosing to pre-plan their own ceremonies using a funeral plan.”

Do you have a specific piece of poetry that you want read out by a certain someone? Maybe you’d request that all of your friends and family turn up in fancy dress? Or perhaps you already have in mind a certain song that will put a smile on everyone’s face...Monty Python’s ‘Always Look on the Bright Side of Life’ and Frank Sinatra’s ‘My Way’ are popular songs requested for funerals!

Co-op Funeralcare would like to know what your funeral wishes are, so please share them below and all who comment will be entered into a prize draw, where one lucky GNer will win a £300 voucher or their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!
GNHQ

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maggie1234 Tue 03-Oct-17 08:07:32

a cheap simple funeral for me in a church, just family to attend, buried in our local cemetery

LynneH Tue 03-Oct-17 06:07:04

I’m already signed up for a funeral plan. As simple as possible.

Aslemma Tue 03-Oct-17 03:01:53

I would like to be cremated so that the family will never feel under an obligation to visit my grave. I shall leave the actual planning to them but have said many times that I don't want a lot of money to be spent, though I did once think it would be nice to have a walking jazz band. I would like to go through the curtain to the voice of Edith Piaff singing "No regrets".

legray22 Mon 02-Oct-17 22:56:40

I know my Lair number! In beside my husband in the town where I live. The Coop arranged his funeral and I hope they will do me the same honour.. Let the children and grand children enjoy a big meal and each others company for a while and reflect on the fact that they know I love them...

Moocow Mon 02-Oct-17 22:33:46

I don't want money to be wasted on my funeral, cheap as chips for me is what I would want my family to do with my blessing and none of this worry about catering for people. I'd like to think that people would rally round and take the load off my immediate family at such a time but most of all I hope it's way off!

kamoc Mon 02-Oct-17 21:43:49

I haven't thought too much about my funeral yet

buckleycat Mon 02-Oct-17 21:43:00

I'd like a simple, short ceremony - a celebratory farewell - I'm sure I won't be far away!
A wicker casket would be ideal - I like the idea of returning to the earth & my body being of some use in a natural sense - I'll have no use for it!
I'd love there to be a party after - where all my favourite upbeat tunes are played & my family can enjoy being together & hold each other that bit dearer.
Life is short.

feeona123 Mon 02-Oct-17 21:22:38

Cheap and as simple as possible! Time for the kids to think of the good time with their family and friends.

gamerwidow Mon 02-Oct-17 21:06:47

I want the cheapest possible cremation and my ashes can be scattered anywhere they like I don't want a shrine.
I'd like everyone to have a nice day reminiscing about the good times we had together rather than being sad.

Carolander Mon 02-Oct-17 20:57:11

I would like a cheap woodland burial in a cardboard coffin. No frills, no service, plan and simple.

tinatwo1961a Mon 02-Oct-17 20:14:20

Cheap as possible I dont hold with all these christian routines as I dont go to church in life so dont want it in death, just get me to the crem, and then scatter the ashes afterwards. Remember I am dead I dont care as long as my family have no bills to pay thats me happy

grannybiker Mon 02-Oct-17 20:05:40

Having already dispatched both parents, I've started to give some thought towards my own...
Much rather have folk laughing and enjoying the get together than crying, so plan a bit of a knees up. I fancy the idea of writing my own eulogy telling them how much I've enjoyed my life and knowing them. Starting to think about some songs - Monkee's I'm a Believer springs to mind, but open to suggestions at this point!

haigythescotsman Mon 02-Oct-17 19:57:13

I've been very specific about my funeral-as I'm Scottish it is to be very personal to me. Everyone is to come with some kind of Tartan on. No one on black, rather in blue. Nobody sad-I am a joker in real life and wish to be reminded like this after my passing.
My entrance music is "Walk 500 miles" by the Proclaimers as that's my journey to Heaven-then as the curtain closes at the service, everyone to leave singing "Flower of Scotland"....make me very proud

KAKADU Mon 02-Oct-17 19:41:04

To be honest I have alraedy told my wife that when i die she can put me in a dustbin. When you are dead I personally don't see the need for a

Minnibix Mon 02-Oct-17 19:37:43

I also would like a cardboard box for a coffin, it seams a waste to burn nice wood. No really bothered about a religious service, but before I am cremated I would like them to play Ring of Fire, give everyone a smile hopefully

cazzar1 Mon 02-Oct-17 19:36:25

I would like to be cremated and my ashes to be buried under a tree so in some way I am still alive and part of nature!

helsrodders Mon 02-Oct-17 19:30:27

A no frills/no fuss/no religion/no weeping/no dressing in black service. I want to be cremated, as I hate being cold. Monty Python's Always Look on the Bright Side of Life to be played and I want everybody to join in singing my farewell. Then everyone goes off for a few dinks and nibbles afterwards, where my life is to be celebrated (not my loss mourned) and my stupid/silly deeds over the years laughed at. Then I want my ashes to be scattered in my favourite holiday destination, where I have holidayed since I was a child and have wonderful memories of.

earnshaw Mon 02-Oct-17 19:10:39

i , personally, dont believe in funerals, why bother when the person is already dead, its so hypcritical, i want no wake, no flowers and no vicar as i am not religious

purplevamp Mon 02-Oct-17 18:40:24

I haven't planned for my funeral yet as I feel I'm too young. But death comes to us all and at different ages. I may die tomorrow or in another 40 years. I keep meaning to get some sort of plan in place for both myself and my husband. But 'life' gets in the way.

dragonfly63 Mon 02-Oct-17 18:34:16

I want my family to do whatever gives them peace and closure. A simple ceremony, a few flowers and some favourite songs followed by a good party should suffice.

Lauzipop Mon 02-Oct-17 18:21:42

They can do anything they want with me as long as I'm not cremated ... I'm terrified of fire. Something cheap and something cheerful and also not with the minister who did my dad's funeral who told everyone they were adulterers and all going to hell.

grungeland Mon 02-Oct-17 18:05:33

The cheapest possible for me but hopefully a guid party afterwards

Lisapaige24 Mon 02-Oct-17 17:51:22

I want to be cremated and my ashes scattered at my favourite place I don’t care if they have a wake or not it’s up to them I would rather they save the money I really don’t see the sense in spending lots of money on the dead when it’s the living that matter

Lclaytonuk555 Mon 02-Oct-17 17:35:29

A non-religious funeral, minimum cost and no black clothing! Music, maybe Sail Away by David Gray.

Edenar Mon 02-Oct-17 17:28:52

I have told the family to keep it simple, I love skiing and they are going to take my ashes on the piste!