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What advice would you give to your younger self? Share with Legal & General - NOW CLOSED

(624 Posts)
EllieGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 04-Feb-19 14:42:13

We’ve all been asked this question at some point. Our answers can vary from ‘I wish I’d taken more risks’ or ‘I would have stopped caring about what people think’, to ‘I wish I’d had more fun’ or ‘I wish I’d travelled the world more’. But if you really think about it, what practical advice would you have really benefited from when you were younger? What would you have told your younger self? What would you have done differently? A recent survey carried out across Mumsnet and Gransnet revealed that some Gransnet users consciously put off financial decisions. Is going further with your finances something you might have given more consideration to, with the benefit of hindsight? Whatever advice you’d like to give to your younger self, Legal & General would love to know.

Here’s what Legal & General have to say: “On our savings journey, a nudge in the right direction can make the world of difference when it comes to our financial futures. It’s starting off early, saving little and often over a longer period, that can really pay off*. Although it’s never too late to start saving, what tips and guidance would have motivated you to do more with your money and just get started?”

Would you have taken more risks when you were younger? Is there any information you wish you would have known back then, such as how to save into your pension, how to invest your money or even how to save your money from an earlier age? Would you like to tell your younger self to be more confident in the decisions you make? Or perhaps you wish you’d spent more time with friends and family?

Whatever the advice you would like to give to your younger self, post them on the thread below and everyone who does will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £300 voucher of their choice (from a list).*

Thanks and good luck with the prize draw
GNHQ

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AuntDahlia Wed 06-Feb-19 21:14:19

Ignore what people say, pay close attention to what they do

Nfaldo75 Wed 06-Feb-19 21:16:38

I would tell myself, how quickly life goes past you when you think you have too much time on your hands. Learn a lot more about things; Get mentoring/coaching.

pennwood Wed 06-Feb-19 21:24:13

I would tell myself to fully appreciate my parents as they are irreplaceable, and I miss them so much now they have gone.

wooohooo Wed 06-Feb-19 21:26:05

Too enjoy life, grab every opportunity

sandian Wed 06-Feb-19 21:40:29

Live life to the full whilst you can.

Grannyhater Wed 06-Feb-19 21:40:51

Fail, fail, fail and fail! It's the best way to learn.

tiddles12 Wed 06-Feb-19 21:42:10

To change jobs every two years if not sooner for a higher paid position rather than settling for the convenience....

mummyfeo Wed 06-Feb-19 21:56:31

I would advise myself to buy a house younger and to start a pension younger!

keke44 Wed 06-Feb-19 22:12:49

Save more and many of the things you think you need, you actually dont.

prosper Wed 06-Feb-19 22:14:43

I wish I had slowed smdien amidst all the chaos so I could have seen the ‘wood for the trees’.

prosper Wed 06-Feb-19 22:16:24

I wish I had had the knowledge to slow down amidst all the chaos so I could have seen ‘the wood for the trees’.

gillyknits Wed 06-Feb-19 22:16:30

Appreciate what you have and don’t always be looking for something better!
More importantly ,don’t start smoking, ever. I am paying the price for smoking since I was seventeen. (I have stopped but the damage is already done.)

pfcpompeysarah Wed 06-Feb-19 22:16:30

I would say to throw myself into things and take more chances, I think often fear of failure has held me back!

madge47 Wed 06-Feb-19 22:19:18

Dont smoke I gave up when I was 49.

becskiboo Wed 06-Feb-19 22:25:07

To not let fear stop you from trying.

annep1 Wed 06-Feb-19 22:26:27

Communicate better.

sscrase Wed 06-Feb-19 22:37:09

Don't settle for humdrum jobs, chase your dreams and explore the world.

haikumad Wed 06-Feb-19 22:46:33

Be more confident, stand up for yourself, take deep breaths and forge ahead!

nettymay Wed 06-Feb-19 23:01:20

I wish I had asked more about my ancestors while I had my great gran, gran and mum and dad

Scha Wed 06-Feb-19 23:45:22

Do it! You have no idea of what you are capable of.

nicmac0708 Thu 07-Feb-19 00:19:35

Don’t worry, be happy ?

disdream84 Thu 07-Feb-19 01:00:15

Not to worry so much about what other people think of me

ribtickler Thu 07-Feb-19 02:24:12

Travel more and experience loads more cultures in this great world

phillip666 Thu 07-Feb-19 04:55:11

Expect Regrets , Cherish the Memories , And Always Remember , What You Are Looking For in Life , Is Always In Front Of You

heavensjoys Thu 07-Feb-19 06:27:33

I wish I had taken a old boss’s advice ‘Don’t be a Jack of all trades - be a master of one’.