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Let’s talk house moves with Pegasus Life - £300 voucher to be won

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JustineBGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 06-Nov-19 11:27:15

Whether it’s because you’re downsizing, moving to be nearer loved ones, or just because you fancy a change in scenery, house moves can be a stressful, time consuming and expensive experience. With this in mind, Pegasus Life would like to hear about your experience of moving house.

Here’s what Pegasus Life has to say: “At PegasusLife we offer beautiful, unique apartments in age-exclusive developments, which have been created to rethink and reinvent the places and ways in which we live as we get older for the better. We know that moving is always a big decision, and we are keen to make the experience as stress-free as possible so we offer a number of services to help our owners make the right decision and ensure an enjoyable move into their new home.”

Have you ever put off moving because it seemed too difficult? What do you least look forward to about moving house? Does the thought of decluttering when moving house fill you with dread, or does it feel like an exciting new start? What would make you consider moving house in the future? Perhaps you have tips for moving house that you’d like to share?

All who leave their thoughts in a comment below will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £300 voucher for the store of their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!

GNHQ

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feefeegabor Tue 19-Nov-19 18:51:58

The whole process is an utter utter stressful nightmare. We moved 13 years ago and I swore I never would again. It was such a hard, stressful, long-winded process.

AuntDahlia Tue 19-Nov-19 18:46:13

Have you ever put off moving because it seemed too difficult?
No, we have only moved when we needed to, and looked on it as an adventure!
What do you least look forward to about moving house?
The whole ghastly business of buying and selling – surveys, chains, timewasters, gazumping, etc.
Does the thought of decluttering when moving house fill you with dread, or does it feel like an exciting new start? Decluttering certainly helps with moving, but we do it on a regular basis. Stuff we don't need goes for car booting, and anything that doesn't sell goes to charity shops or the dump.
What would make you consider moving house in the future? We do intend to move again, as we'd like more land for growing food and rearing animals. We're looking for somewhere more rural, but not too cut off – but we'll never be looking for an old people's community.
Perhaps you have tips for moving house that you’d like to share? Yes, use a reputable removal firm and let them do all the packing – saves so much hassle.

abigailflo Tue 19-Nov-19 18:25:27

I have been in my home 20 years and that's because I hate the whole moving experience. Weeks of unpacking boxes are a nightmare which I don't want to repeat in a hurry

towser44 Tue 19-Nov-19 18:04:54

I'd never move again, unless I win some money and therefore not having to worry about selling my current home before moving into the new one!

sezz35sezz35 Tue 19-Nov-19 17:54:52

Although it is very stressful I think of it as a new chapter. Yes many memories may have been made in a home but many more will be made in a new one and you take your memories with you.

glennamy Tue 19-Nov-19 17:54:37

I think if you have a checklist then it can be less stressful, I live in a village so I think I am now in the place to live a good retirement away from London!

Marshmallowpants Tue 19-Nov-19 17:29:47

I have moved many, many times in my life! I am an expert at decluttering, but there is always too much to move. I would never move without a professional removal firm now, as it is just so much work to do yourself. My top tip is to write which room each box is going to and a short description of the contents. Also, make sure you have a box with essentials for the first few days, such as kettle, mugs, glasses, plates, cutlery.

sheilads105 Tue 19-Nov-19 17:28:22

As we get older house moves become more difficult both physically and emotionally. Don't ignore your feelings when moving, even if the reasons all stack up on paper. It can be a wrench to leave a loved home, even more so when moving areas. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to adjust. Take it slowly and enjoy the new experiences as much as possible.

kasperc0 Tue 19-Nov-19 15:49:18

I've moved far too many times to count, and it sucks every time. I've accepted that I'll never own my house.

Tabs1 Tue 19-Nov-19 15:43:16

9 house moves that I can remember including across the world. Forces father, forces husband! The more you move, the better you get at it! Most important to start packing early, label everything and consider numerical sequence - what will you need first in your new home? Do keep an upto date list of the boxes and contents. If you can get the packing and unpacking organised successfully, you are on your way!!

devito Tue 19-Nov-19 15:37:09

we moved 3 years ago and although we had everything organised it was still very stressful.

emmmaaa26 Tue 19-Nov-19 15:19:23

Moving house is extremely stressful. I think the good parts are remaking the new house into your own cosy home.

liquorice Tue 19-Nov-19 15:10:10

We plan on staying in our current home until our daughter finishes school, we will then either go to the country or go abroad

rachelmccraith Tue 19-Nov-19 15:02:42

I think it's both exciting and stressful! I'd worry about the sort of neighbours I might have, as it's hard to get a real sense of that until you've lived somewhere a little while.

I'd certainly consider moving though, especially if my dream home came onto my radar and finances allowed for it

M00se Tue 19-Nov-19 14:57:35

I find them to be quite stessful, but generally worth it. I've not yet regretted one.

gd Tue 19-Nov-19 14:52:22

Too stressful. I'm staying where I am for as long as possible.

carolvs1 Tue 19-Nov-19 14:34:34

Having a reason to declutter would be fabulous. We have a garage full of stuff that never sees the light of day, ditto many cupboards throughout the house.... bring on the boot sales and trips to the dump!

sophie56 Tue 19-Nov-19 14:08:41

I detest moving house. It is so expensive, there are so many things to do, informing everyone is a pain and half the time they fail to note your change of address so you have to follow up. I hate the fear about whether everything is going to be ok, is the house ok are the neighbours ok etc. I may move when my parent's die to be nearer to family but the thought terrifies me.

LOU1ASH1 Tue 19-Nov-19 14:00:42

For me its, changing address on bills, online banking. Seems such a big task.

Ladytulip Tue 19-Nov-19 13:09:09

I moved 4 times in 5 years with my teenage children and it was a nightmare. We are settled now and hopefully won't have to move again.

Humph Tue 19-Nov-19 13:01:37

We have lived in the same house for over 30 years so the thought of moving fills me with fear - flooding, subsidence, poor workmanship, upheaval - I don't know where the list ends

maryandbuzz1 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:59:33

I think the whole process of moving house is stressful. From having strangers viewing your house and airing their views to trying to finding a suitable house and then tying the whole process together. I don’t look forward to the prospect at all.

kama88 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:58:31

I love moving! Have done it many times and whilst it is always a little sad to leave a place you've called home for a while, it's also really exciting moving into somewhere new and decorating it. I love the opportunity to clean things out, throw things away or sell unused goods.

angela121262 Tue 19-Nov-19 11:48:00

I think we have stayed longer in our present house because our first move was such a nightmare! We have gathered many more possessions now, I would have a major de clutter of our loft and wardrobes before considering another move.

Michelleoliver Tue 19-Nov-19 11:44:36

Moving house is one of the most stressful life events. You have limited control over the situation and nothing is certain until you get the keys of your new home. The next move I have will be when we decide to downsize. The cost and hassle of moving puts me off until the time comes where due to our physical health our house is too big to manage.