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Gransnetters share the difficulties they have experienced as their eyesight has deteriorated

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LucyBGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 09-Dec-19 10:42:16

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As our eyesight deteriorates, it’s harder to appreciate the details in life, from the distant landscape on your next holiday away, to the tiny wrinkles on your new grandchild’s fingers and toes. It’s likely that you might experience at least one difficulty each day if you have poor vision. With this in mind, Serious Readers would like to hear from you.

Here’s what Serious Readers have to say: “Serious Light take the strain out of reading by projecting a natural, balanced light beam on to your page so you can regain the joy of reading. Serious Readers produce high performance lights designed for the ultimate reading experience. Whether reading in the lounge, bedroom or study, Serious Readers lights have something for everyone. The High Definition Light is closest to natural daylight and recommended if you suffer from an eye condition.”

When did you first notice that your eyesight was starting to deteriorate? What eye condition did/do you have and how did/do you treat it? Do you know what you can do to combat eye conditions as we age? Do you find details a little more difficult to see or perhaps you’ve noticed that the words are starting to look blurrier when you’re reading that hard to put down book? Are there any steps you have taken to try and improve your ability to see? Have you heard about Serious Readers and how their lights can help with eye strain?

Share the difficulties you’ve experienced as your eyesight has deteriorated and you will be entered into a prize draw when 1 GNer will win a £300 voucher for a store of their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!
GNHQ

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SillyNanny321 Mon 16-Dec-19 11:19:38

About 15 years ago I was told that I had dry AMD in both eyes. Was referred to Consultant who said there was nothing that could be done & that I would eventually lose my central vision. There is still nothing that can be done for dry AMD. A few years later I had lines bending & lots of disturbances in my vision in my right eye. Saw a different Consultant who was really excellent & told me that I had wet AMD & had to have injections in my eye to stop the bleed that was causing the damage to the Macula. The damage was halted after several injections as it was caught early. There is no cure for wet AMD either. After a couple more years wet AMD was diagnosed in my left eye. More injections into the eye & the damage has eased but sight in that eye is much worse. I think because the Hospital changed the medication that they gave. I now have very bad cataract in that eye & am waiting for a removal operation on the cataract. Sight in the left eye is just a blur. I have to have the print on my laptop & ipad large & to read need a bright white light behind me. Would like to have a decent light but can only afford a cheap one. TV is hard to watch, colouring now looks like a 6 year old has done it. Reading hurts my shoulders as I have hold the book at an angle to read with my better right eye. Dreading anything happening to my 'good' eye again. At 75 I guess this is just to be expected though! I wear dark glasses over my prescription glasses when out in sunshine as I cannot see properly. Have difficulty seeing buses coming & reading the destination boards. Crossing roads is a nightmare. It could be worse though, I could lose my sight completely as others have at least I still have my 'good' eye for now!

Ramblingrose22 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:58:33

This is a bit of a saga!
I became short-sighted at the age of 12 and was the only person in my family to need glasses.
My prescription got worse as I reached my 20's so I wore hard contact lenses. Then I scratched my cornea putting one in and was in agony. That put me off them.
Returned to glasses after trying soft lenses because I couldn't remove them - hated poking around in my eyes.
Had cataract surgery at age 61 in order to get prescription lenses and do away with glasses altogether. However the reading lens in the left eye didn't work for me because of the astigmatism in that eye so I still need reading glasses. Laser treatment might remove it but my optician put me off it.
A few months after my cataract surgery I noticed that the vision in my right eye was a bit hazy. It turned out I have a pseudo macular hole (whatever that is) in the retina of my right eye. The specialist said it is unlikely to get worse and I manage OK.
2 years after the cataract surgery I noticed cloudy vision in the left eye. It turned out that the lens implanted was defective and was "calcified" so it had to be replaced. Many others had the same problem and the manufacturers paid for the second op.
I was very fortunate to get the defective lens replaced using my natural lens capsule or the surgery would have been more complicated. I chose a simpler lens to reduce the risk of not being able to re-use the natural lens capsule.
My main issue now is that when I wake up in the morning it takes a while for my eyes to focus on distance. Maybe it is due to dry eye and the film of tear fluid isn't replaced properly overnight. Would be interested to know if anyone else has this problem.

nettyandmasey Mon 16-Dec-19 10:51:27

I have been short sighted since being a teenager. In December 2001, had flashing lights and blurred vision after a few days went to optician and had a detached retina. Repaired that night, sadly the hole was too big and op had to be redone the following Wednesday. I then developed cataract in that eye, side effect of second op, was done in 2007. Had both eyes done to balance sight. 2013 I had a detached retina in other eye, this time I knew what to look for ! So hole was very small, a lot smaller than they normally see in fact. Since then I have had to had eyes lasered due to build up of something on lens. I’m am 56. There is a history of detached retina in the family.

Lclaytonuk555 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:50:28

I have worn glasses since I was 8. I had laser eye surgery almost 20 years ago and since then my distance vision is fine.

However I am quite short sighted and wear glasses, mostly perched on the end of my nose, to see anything I need to read etc.

I haven’t used a special light for crafting but do find I need a good brightness to help me see.

I haven’t needed a new prescription for my specs on my last two visits to the opticians so hopefully my vision won’t deteriorate too rapidly as I age.

christinawadeley Mon 16-Dec-19 10:38:21

The worst thing I find with my failing sight is that I cannot see my grandchildren as clearly as I used to. Their faces are fuzzy now. Another great loss is reading which I can no longer do even with a magnifier.

GildaT Mon 16-Dec-19 10:37:41

Always very short sighted I began having further problems which included double vision, blurring and difficulty reading. Prisms were recommended and as a consequence I required stronger prescription glasses plus bifocals for use with my contact lenses. Later still I was diagnosed with macular degeneration and am presently attending the hospital outpatients’ department for treatment. Nowadays I mainly use my strong prescription glasses. I confided in only one colleague about my eyesight problems and was publicly mocked by her in front of others. Consequently I have experienced a loss of confidence, have rarely socialised and tend to use lights to aid reading .

shazzam7 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:31:29

I come from a large family of glasses wearers, and have worn reading glasses since my 30s. In my mid forties, I hailed an ambulance, thinking it was the local bus! (No, the siren wasn’t going!) so back to the opticians for a good check-up: my longsightedness has morphed into short-sightedness!
Not unusual as we age, I was told, but I was devastated. The thought of having to wear glasses for the rest of my life was hard to come to terms with. To be fair, my vision really improved and art coincidentally reentered my life and brought so much pleasure.
My frustration is bad or poor lighting that’s in so many places: shops, offices, street lighting. And don’t get me started on labels!!?
I mostly miss simple actions, like threading a needle, which I used to do with my eyes (almost) shut, as they say!
I’m not sure that even very good lighting could enable that action ever again - although it would impress me no end if it did!

susiesioux Mon 16-Dec-19 10:30:01

I don’t have to many problems. I just need glasses go driving and tv etc. Although I have noticed myself holding books further away but print generally doesn’t cause me problems yet

grandmaz Mon 16-Dec-19 10:29:38

This is a biggie for me as my most beloved hobby is to read...has been so since I was a child - curling up with a book in a cosy corner somewhere has always been my ultimate comfort zone.

Now in my late sixties, I am finding that despite varifocals, my vision is incrasingly blurred...'cataracts' pronounced the optometrist cheerily - not bad enough to be done yet! I am finding that I am also clunsier than I used to be - could this be eyesight related I wonder, for the umpteenth time. hmm

To complicate matters, I had a Post Vitreous Detachment in 2005 and the legacy of this is a scar (due to laser repair and then haemorrhage) right across the centre of my field of vision in what was my stronger, left, eye. This was manageable 'pre cataracts' however now it's an added frustrations as the cataracts are affecting both eyes.

I find that my eyes become tired so easily now...and my reading time has dwindled to twenty minutes before bed. Interestingly I am better reading without my glasses, close up, however even this is beginning to blur.

I'd be devastated to lose my ability to read - I've experimented with talking books and indeed some of these are wonderful...but it's not the same, is it? All those years of book tokens as gifts - the anticipation of browsing in my local bookshop for new reading matter...stacking the books up beside my bed and then - which one to read first?

I hadn't heard of Serious Reader lights ...but I shall certainly check them out now.

Merry Christmas everyone and happy reading for as long as we can!
tchsmile

jenni123 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:27:38

Hi, I am 77 and diabetic so have regular checks. I also have cataracts which must be getting worse. I had a sight check only about 5 weeks ago and was told that the cataracts are growing but should be OK for a while. I have to wear glasses for reading and am now finding this difficult, I am virtually housebound so do spend time reading etc , watching TV and am on the computer a lot. I have a fear of going blind I really do not think I would be able to cope with that at all.
I can see the TV without glasses but am unable to read any dialogue. My health has deteriorated over the past 2 years and I have been very unwell, I just wish my sight was better. i don't mind wearing glasses but really would like to have better vision with or without them,

cookiemonster66 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:24:38

I started wearing glasses in my early teens. It upset me that my eyes were bad as I hoped to join the police but they were not good enough. In those days I had the NHS glasses which I refused to wear outside in public, once I played drums on a strangers buttocks thinking it was a mate of mine as I could not see it was not them! As I have got older I now wear bifocals , this helps with my reading, doing crosswords, colouring with my grandkids, reading recipes to bake, . My greatest love is reading though, the ultimate escapism!

gillgran Mon 16-Dec-19 10:23:38

I'm now 73, I had good eyesight until I was 40-ish, when I had a job that needed me to see rather poor quality computer print-out. I then had to have glasses for reading. Gradually I needed stronger lens, & for the past 15/20 years I have had vari-lens specs., so need to wear them all the time. Over the past 5 years or so, my optician has said that I have slowly progressing cataracts, (as the NHS has "moved the goalposts" they are not yet ready to be done on the NHS)
I hate to drive at night as the light all "sparkle", I really avoid driving at night. I need a good light to read, & I really do love to read.

Sued123 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:22:35

Like others, I wore glasses for years, then had cataracts done. Result - no need for glasses except for reading and then only for very small print. I have a couple of Serious Reader lamps and they are excellent for regular readers like me. Also, they supplied a small magnifier with my order which I find useful to read labels on goods when out shopping.

Authoress Mon 16-Dec-19 10:18:42

I don't actually know if it's age related, but my eyes seem to be producing a lot more liquid, which tends to end up on my glasses so that I'm forever cleaning them. PITA...

Dannydog1 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:13:38

I started to need glasses for reading in my fifties and the vari vocals at sixty - which I struggled to adjust to - but working in a classroom they where practical as constantly changing from near to distance work.
I have just had a cateract done in one eye and can’t believe the difference in my eyesight- you really do not realise the deterioration as it is so gradual.

Flossieflyby Mon 16-Dec-19 10:10:18

Started with reading glasses in my 50s - family history of glaucoma so regular checks

AJL123 Mon 16-Dec-19 10:05:27

My eyesight has deteriorated and I am using my varifocal specs all the time now. I find it difficult to judge depth sometimes so steps down can have caught me out once or twice and it does affect my confidence. Would love to wear contacts but having tried one eye for distance and one eye for close up, that was not going to work. My friend said persevere but I don't think my brain can adjust to it.

Rachand Mon 16-Dec-19 09:56:54

I have been shortsighted since a teenager however resisted glasses for ages (boys don’t make passes with girls in glasses!). Over the years slowly got a bit worse. Now have the start of cataracts and I do notice it’s harder to read at night. I have started to get migraines again in the last few years so have the funny lights which are horrible of course. Hubby suddenly got glaucoma- the optiticans pick it up thankfully, he has gone on to have eye op in one eye as pressure so high, the other eye came down but the pressure is starting to rise again, so monitoring that. It’s so important to have regular eye checks as you would never know you had glaucoma.

sunshine57 Mon 16-Dec-19 09:40:46

One day I bent down to plug in the vacuum cleaner and suddenly, there was a flash in my left eye and it was full of firework type flashing.My husband took me to A&E where I was diagnosed as having a retinal tear.This was repaired by laser treatment and has been fine since then.
But then came my second experience some years later which happened just as I passed through customs after landing at Birmingham airport.Then again came the flashing but this time it was in my right eye.I was on my own at this point and tried to look for a first aid post but could not see one.I managed with blurry vision to make my way to the arrivals hall where my husband was waiting for me.We knew what was wrong and we went straight to A&E where I had laser treatment as before for a retinal tear.
My point about this is, if you experience any flashing in the eyes, go straight to A&E.A retinal tear is a serious condition and needs treatment a soon as possible as the tear can peel across the whole of the retina and sight can be lost completely.
This happened between 10-15 years ago and I have been fine since but I am always aware that this could happen again as the tears can start at different parts of the retina.
I am short sighted and this condition tends to affect those with this problem.
All the best to everyone and keep on eye on things!

Evie64 Sun 15-Dec-19 23:11:36

I am as "blind as a bat" without my varifocals, and the optician tells me I have cataracts beginning in both eyes which explains why I find driving at night such a struggle. However, if I could just step into my shower and pick up the shampoo instead of the conditioner, I'd be happy! grin

avery64 Sun 15-Dec-19 20:35:24

Now 72, I had ops on both eyes age 7 and have worn glasses ever since. I am short sighted and wear varifocals during the day but need intermediate glasses in the evening as I am on my laptop a lot. My new laptop has blue light shield enabled and I have found this very beneficial for my eyes. I have yearly eye checks as Mum had glaucoma and always have the retinal screening which shows my eyes are in good condition. So glad because I am passionate about books and reading and the loss of my sense of sight is the one I fear the most as I have got older.

Liaise Sun 15-Dec-19 19:54:13

We are in our mid seventies and do have serious reading lights. They help enormously as our eyes are getting worse. Neither of us needed glasses when we were younger but time has moved on. We have varifocals and I have a pair of reading glasses for reading in bed. Every bit of extra light is useful particularly in the evening. We are now needing hospital appointments at the eye clinic so I think these lights will be even more useful in the future.

granfromafar Sun 15-Dec-19 16:44:49

Like Mislayed, have worn contact lenses since late teens and am now the age that Lennon and McCartney sang about! The prescription for both eyes became the same a few years ago and still is. Have trouble seeing small print in the evening when eyes are tired, and not keen on night driving either. Have not heard of Serious Reader but sounds brilliant!

Holidayenthusiast Sun 15-Dec-19 16:35:30

I have been short sighted all my life and have worn glasses or contact lenses.
However, when I turned 50 I began to develop long sightedness. Then I needed contact lenses and glasses together for reading. Or, I had varifocal glasses that I cannot get on with. Or, I was prescribed two contact lenses of different strengths, one for far vision and one for close work. And, most recently, my longsightedness and shortsightedness seem to be decreasing so I have just one contact lense - another solution that I don’t get along with.
Now I have given up with lenses and just have varifical glasses that I take off for reading. The issue of reading in the dark has been solved by buying an e-reader.

Dublin29 Sun 15-Dec-19 12:50:32

I’ve been very short sighted since about the age of 9 & am now 58. Worn strong prescription glasses since then, never went to contact lens as I hate the idea of doing things to your eyes. From about age 43/44 needed more reading addition help, which was annoying. My work paid for eye test & reading glasses, as we were looking at computer screens all day. That became inconvenient after a while, swapping glasses to even read food packaging.

I then went on to bifocals, strange at first, but got used to it. Wouldn’t go for varifocals as my balance is not good & think it’s a gimmick anyway. I have noticed that I still struggle a little with much smaller type/print & what’s annoying about bifocals is that it limits choice of frames somewhat.

I had heard of serious readers previously, I think it was adverts in newspapers.