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What acts of kindness have you experienced during lockdown? - £100 voucher to be won

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YanaGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 21-May-20 14:46:09

We live in times we wouldn’t have expected even just a few months ago. On the surface we’re navigating stockpiling, how to cut hair at home and maintaining social relationships, but the extraordinary situation is bringing communities closer together with people showing true kindness.

So, we’d like to hear about your experience of acts of kindness during this difficult time, whether you’ve been on the giving or receiving end of them.
-What’s the most memorable act of kindness you’ve seen recently? How did it help others?
-If you or anyone close to you needs special care, how are they getting it?
-What’s been the most challenging aspect of lockdown, and has an act of kindness helped you through that?
-Which organisations or brands would you like to thank for going out their way to help during the crisis? What have they done?

Whatever acts of kindness you’ve experienced during the pandemic and lockdown, share your experience on the thread below. All GN users who post sharing their experience will be entered into a prize draw where one GNer will win a £100 voucher for a store of their choice (from a list).

Thanks and good luck!
GNHQ

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tonycarbone Wed 27-May-20 14:39:08

Some of my friends have offered to shop for me!

Superselena Wed 27-May-20 09:00:58

My neighbour is a nurse a on covvid wards. She makes a point of asking me everytime she goes shopping if I need anything.. True kindness.

stoolballgirl Wed 27-May-20 08:14:10

People leaving free Easter treats outside their house for walkers to help themselves to if they haven't been able to get to the shops, or free books and DVDs etc

jan378 Wed 27-May-20 00:27:47

Due to health we are in lockdown, and my daughter has been doing our garden getting our medicine and swaing some trees down in the front of our house wich were taking over, meanwhile my neighnours have been lending their green bins to take the extra garden waste and one of our neighbours has been mowing the lawn for us. My daughter is a single mother with 2 boys, and can't work at the moment because she is a hair dresser,

Evie64 Tue 26-May-20 21:23:46

Kazzabarbie, yes I agree, that is real sisterly love. Bless her heart doing that for you. However, gin can be a depressant they say?

Seakay Tue 26-May-20 18:27:48

I have had more people say "hello" than has happened for years (I've been chronically ill for a long time). Just neighbours if they pass when I'm at an open window, or the postman, or people on the other side of the road or pavement if I am shopping. I think that people are more aware of how much small contacts mean now that they have had to experience some degree of isolation themselves. I hope that these gestures will continue, and that people will remember how miserable being ignored is, and how difficult to live on benefits payments are, once they are back living their active lives and earning their full wages.

jeanjeany Tue 26-May-20 16:49:46

I was going to the supermarket and realised after waiting a little while to get to the trolleys which I thought was free due to the virus I had not got a £1 coin only my contactless card.
so Iwas going back to my car to go home when a gentleman called out to me and gave me a £1 coin for the trolly.
I know it was only a £1 but the kindness was worth a lot more

jacpri Tue 26-May-20 15:33:43

So many people, not just close friends, have rung to check that we are alright. It's been lovely to chat to people and I am trying to reciprocate by ringing them myself.

Dollyfair Tue 26-May-20 15:33:21

Having two of my close family working on the frontline NHS, I have been so pleased with the way so many individuals and companies, large and small have gone out of their way to provide gifts and treats for them. It has been truly appreciated, not just for the nice things, but the thought behind it that their work is so appreciated. Thanks all of you.

Dawn07 Tue 26-May-20 15:18:05

In these times, every simple act, no matter how seemingly insignificant can make all the difference. I am shielding, but still working from home, and I have had such kind support from my next door neighbours on both sides, who take it in turns to get shopping for me. Because they both have their own lives and they are doing me such a kind favour, I only tend to ask for things that I really need. I find it very hard to accept help, and will never ask for help. I am the person who usually helps every one else, and I feel guilty that I can't be out helping them now.
I found I was getting quite low in mood, and realised it was because I was missing those 'naughty' extras that we treat ourselves with. Out of the blue I got a message from a friend to say they had been and got themselves take away fish and chips the previous night. They thought of me, and wondered, when they went next time, would I like them to get some for me and drop it off as they went past! It really made my week, and was delicious.

Harvey12 Tue 26-May-20 15:07:31

A little after lockdown began (& I am in shielding) I received an unexpected parcel in the post. It was from a member of our (small) "Book Club" (We do talk about books but also drink wine, prosecco, eat nibbles & put the world to rights !!) It contained all essentials for lockdown - including chocolate, alcohol, smellies plus seeds to plant & watch grow. It was a lovely, thoughtful gesture. The lady who sent it is in isolation with a very sick husband & has many serious health issues herself. We should be nurturing her !!

tomskype Tue 26-May-20 14:57:45

my daughter and son in law are doing our shopping as well as his father's along with our gardens just to ensure we stay safe.

fialcross Tue 26-May-20 14:56:31

Lockdown has felt very challenging to me as I am recovering from a fractured skull and a bleed on the brain. Having made it back to work, I was struggling with memory problems and physical exhaustion. Then my Mum died, and the same week the boss said that we had to lose seventeen staff hours. My Mum's funeral followed and the same week I was made redundant! The following week lockdown came and I was reeling from all that had happened to me. My family, though all miles way, have been very supportive, calling me and writing me letters. My colleagues have also been great, keeping in touch.

Leefitz68 Tue 26-May-20 12:57:02

My grandaughter baked a cake (she is 8) for the first time and left it on our doorstep

harrigran Tue 26-May-20 12:33:53

My sister arranged for a meal and a bottle of Champagne to be delivered to the house on my birthday.
Normally we would dine out at a restaurant but this was restaurant standard and all we had to do was pop it in the oven.
It really was a lovely gesture.

rags Tue 26-May-20 12:26:24

My neighbour has been cutting the grass for me

CarolW5 Mon 25-May-20 18:03:04

A lovely example is the simple act of friends making the effort to scan and send photos out to others. Really brightens my day so I am not doing the same smile

glammanana Mon 25-May-20 12:19:50

My eldest son works for one of the big supermarkets and he works permanant nights every day he messages me to ask what my neighbours need (there are 8 in our cul-de-sac) he drops items off on his way home every morning making sure they all have fresh bread & milk etc.

kazzabarbie Mon 25-May-20 08:39:36

My Sister walked for 2 1/2 hours to deliver a bottle of Gin and some tonics to my house as I was suffering from depression. Now that is love and kindness smile

fullarton121 Mon 25-May-20 08:35:44

We are continuing to do our more elderly neighbours weekly shop throughout these troubled times. It's the least we can do and they are very grateful.

marymod Mon 25-May-20 01:18:24

We have a community facebook group set up and we are all offering to do what we can to help each other. This varies from offering extra items that we have to checking that everyone is alright. It is really lovely how we've come together as a community to look after each other.

Fennel Sun 24-May-20 21:33:12

Silly old woman that I am I went out on Friday in that terrible wind to the local shops and on the way back I tripped and fell. Couldn't get up. It was in an estate which is a bit notorious for drug abuse etc.
2 people came running to help me. There's good in everyone.

Harris27 Sun 24-May-20 19:29:14

There was a little knock on my door and when I went to answer it at the bottom of my steps where three children I had taught the youngest still in my room. They had left me three lovely title plants and lovely drawings which said “ please stay safe” I was in tears.

quizqueen Sun 24-May-20 13:49:25

My grandchildren sent me a 'hug me' token through the post that I could carry that around in my pocket until I could hug them for real.

sunshine57 Sun 24-May-20 13:19:05

I live on the island of Fuerteventura where lock down rules have been very strict.We were at one point only allowed to go to the village shop.One day in the shop I noticed an old lady struggling to carry her shopping and several large water bottles.
I rang my husband who was waiting for me in the car and asked him to come and help the lady carry her shopping to her car which he did,She was very grateful.
She must have been well over seventy years of age.

Lock-down rules at the shop are a temperature check at the entrance,everyone must wear a face mask and gloves and the gloves themselves have to be sanitised with gel.

This has gone on for eight weeks and tomorrow the rules will be relaxed but we still have to wear a mask in town if we go there.

Hope things get better in the UK and perhaps one day soon holidays to this beautiful island will resume.

All the best to everyone and keep safe.