What about the debt that society owes to us? To those who gave up their own careers while their children were growing up so as to give them their time and care at home? To those who campaigned so that women could get equal pay, who established child care, fought for equal opportunities at work and against domestic violence at home?
If you are a baby-boomer,Angus then you were born just after the war, and you are about 60 to 68. Chances are that your teenage children must have been born when you about 50 -55.
Most (well, many) of the posters on Gransnet had their children when they were younger than that, before the women had established much of a career, and it was difficult for them then to get back into full-time work. Childcare was not easy, shopping was not a one-stop supermarket trip, there was only one car per household (if that) and holidays with children were usually spent with one or other set of grandparents.
We had mortgages to pay, just as young parents do now, or we paid rent without the prospect of one day in the far future actually owning a house outright. We had to provide a deposit before we got that mortgage - which was only calculated on the income of one main breadwinner.
Everything except the house mortgage and the car were paid for as we could afford it. We tightened our belts, furnished our houses piecemeal, and did our own wallpapering. Our clothes lasted for years and we handed down children's clothes to family and friends.
Our reward was to own a home that we loved, where we brought up our children, who now come back to that home with their own children. If we have savings, we help out our family, and in any case our "spare rooms" are often full of grandchildren.
There are many grandparents who care for grandchildren regularly, from a day or two a week to daily childcare and frequent sleepovers. Worse than unpaid, in fact at a loss. Many more volunteer at a charity (not just at a shop, there are hands-on organisations who depend heavily on retired helpers) or look out for their frailer neighbours.
We spend our savings and contribute to the economy. We vote, contributing to the political life of the country.
What we contribute more than balances any imagined "debt" on the rest of society. There are many greedier sectors of the economy to be targetted before us.