Hello everyone..............significant birthday on horizon. For logistic reasons it must be a lunch party in Oxford. Two elderly slightly infirm relatives 9 healthy ones, and three lovely GC 9, 7, & 4. Any ideas as I don't live there!! Any suggestions please and DH and I can have fun trying the menus out on multiple trips there before. 
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?




well you all know what I mean!
for all the suggestions. (I took DD2's advice when I said "But I don't know anywhere in Oxford!" - she said "Well I'd ask Mumsnet, why not you ask Gransnet!)
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