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Invisibility in later life

A survey by Gransnet reveals the extent to which women feel overlooked and patronised as they get older - seven out of 10 believe women become 'invisible'.

See the full survey results below.

 

 

To what extent, if at all, do you agree that the following people become 'invisible' as they get older?
  Total
Women in general  
Agree 70 % (23 % strongly agree)
Disagree 16 %
   
Men in general  
Agree 32 %
Disagree 40 %
   
You personally, in your own experience so far  
Agree 57 %
Disagree 26 %

 

 

At what age, if at all, do you think the following start to become 'invisible'? Please enter a specific age. (If you don't think that people become 'invisible'/don't feel 'invisible' yourself, please feel free to skip any part of this question.) 
  Total
Women in general 52.7
Men in general 64.5
You personally, in your own experience so far 48.3

 

 

If you agree that women get invisible as they get older, why do you think this happens?
  Total
Society is obsessed with youth 62 %
Society is ageist 54 %
Society is sexist 35 %
N/A: I don’t think women start to become ‘invisible’ as they get older 17 %
Other 11 %

 

 

Which, if any, of the following scenarios have happened or do happen to you?
  Total
I no longer get/get less random attention from the opposite sex 54 %
I’ve been passed over when waiting at a bar (in a pub, for example) 43%
People barge past me in queuing situations or crowded spaces 34 %
I’ve been ignored in shops 31 %
I’ve been ignored when entering a restaurant, garage or other service businesses 25 %
I’ve been passed over by staff when in a queue in a shop or service business 24 %
If I'm out with a younger person, people tend to talk to them rather than to me directly 23 %
People let doors slam in my face 18 %
None of these/skipped 21 %
Other 5 %

 

 

If you have a partner of around the same age as you, please say which of the following applies to you as a couple (Filter: those who have a partner - 76% of total)
  Total
Neither of us get passed over and ignored in public very much 42 %
I get passed over and ignored in public much more than my partner 36 %
We both get passed over and ignored in public to about the same degree 15 %
My partner gets passed over and ignored in public much more than I do  6 %

 

 

To what extent, if at all, do you agree with the following statements?
  Total
I like being ‘invisible’  
Agree 17 %
Disagree 43 %
   
I miss the attention I attracted when I was younger  
Agree 38 %
Disagree 30 %
   
I get more attention now than I did when I was younger  
Agree 6 %
Disagree 67 %
   
Style and confidence have more to do with how you’re treated than age  
Agree 63 %
Disagree 15 %
   
Older women tend to be more invisible than older men of the same age  
Agree 64 % (29 % strongly agree)
Disagree 15 %
   
I feel more confident as I get older  
Agree 65 %
Disagree 19%
   
Younger people patronise me as I get older  
Agree 37 %
Disagree 35 %
   
I care less about what people think about me as I get older  
Agree 79 % (32 % strongly agree)
Disagree 12 %
   
This sort of ‘invisibility’ is a sexist, ageist phenomenon that mostly affects older women  
Agree 62 %
Disagree 13 %

 

Gransnet.com survey of 1072 Gransnet users and Mumsnet users aged 50+ conducted 27 October - 11 November 2016. The data is not weighted.