when the children were in their teens we had a house fire. It didn't last long, the fire brigade were fantastic but so much damage was done, we moved out while the kitchen and bathroom were replaced along with numerous carpets, furniture, clothes and books cleaned and so on. It was traumatic, especially as I lost all the baby and early childhood photographs of my eldest child as well as numerous photographs of my grandparents/own childhood etc. Lots of loss there. I was probably, therefore, slightly unhinged when I agreed to teenagers and their dad choosing the colour schemes - we had the whole house done in lining paper as none of us are wallpaper fans. The teens and their dad chose a combination of primary colours and Downton type deep reds. This in a very ordinary semi. It took several years for me to slowly work my way around the house covering the deep colours with a selection of Farrow and Ball, inoffensive colours. I got over it and sadly, can't imagine either of my parents saying there there dear, we'll chip in so you can change all this.
No criticism of Atqui - I think we're a different generation than our own dear parents were
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