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Squashed boobs!

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bigmomma Tue 16-Sep-14 17:20:53

I have been advised to wear a front opening bra after surgery and I'm asking for advice from anyone who has been able to buy a comfortable one - as I have not. I've tried two or three "comfort bras" which are supposed to fit about three cup sizes but my poor boobs could not keep up the sruggle against the elastic fabric and just remained squashed. Is anyone able to recommend a good, comfortable one in a proper cup size? I should be so grateful for any advice. (smile)

rosequartz Tue 16-Sep-14 17:39:32

Not sure why you were recommended a front fastening bra, there must be a reason why you were told this.
This company is good for post-surgery bras, not sure if there is a front fastening one, but they are very helpful on the phone.

[http://www.nicolajane.com/?gclid=CPyiqNaV5sACFYUIwwodkEIAhA]

shysal Tue 16-Sep-14 19:40:42

www.justbras.co.uk/ourshop/cat_137989-Front-Fastening-Bras.html
There are a couple of post surgery ones here. Or would a sleep bra work?

bigmomma Tue 16-Sep-14 20:42:13

I am expecting open heart surgery Rose, so I suppose that the boobs must be supported so as not to strain the stitches afterwards
. It would also be easier to examine the chest I suppose if the bra opened in the front. Thank you for telling me about Nicolajane; I will investigate.

And shysal I have looked at your link and found it very promising. Thank you.

rosequartz Tue 16-Sep-14 22:35:47

Not sure if nicolajane would have anything bigmomma, they do post- mastectomy wear.
I misunderstood; hope all goes well flowers

felice Tue 16-Sep-14 22:54:09

I had a heart valve replacement a few years ago, and was advised to wear a bra afterwards, I tried a few after the op, all uncomfotable and I think front fastening would be the worst.
My DD got me a boob tube smaller size than normal, I am a big lady and it was great, it had shoestring straps, cotton and I think came from M&S. It just held everything in place without putting any strain on. Good luck with the op, if it is the same as me and you want to chat about it feel free to PM me.

rosequartz Tue 16-Sep-14 22:58:39

You can buy soft pull- on bras, a little support but nothing to irritate, perhaps my linked firm does those (I will do it again, it didn't work last time)

www.nicolajane.com/?gclid=CIKsrsHd5sACFVDKtAodKygAXw

rosequartz Tue 16-Sep-14 23:02:46

They do one called Isra by Anita - front fastening with buttons and looks nice and comfortable. You could just ignore the pockets in it, wouldn't make any difference I would think.

Granny23 Wed 17-Sep-14 00:12:51

Perhaps the front opening bra is required so that you are not struggling to do it up behind your back. If you are googling try 'front closing bras' as this is what they seem to be called nowadays. Simply Be have a good selection here:

www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/front-fastening/bras/lingerie/1/_/N-1ytvjvt/products/show.action?cm_sp=DAL_CRO_Banners-_-FrontFastening-Bras-_-FrontFastening

I might try one myself, as with arthritic fingers I am finding it increasingly difficult to do the behind the back hook up.

shysal Wed 17-Sep-14 08:48:28

I have always had to do up the fastening of my bra at the front and twizzle it round to the back before pulling up the straps.

Ana Wed 17-Sep-14 11:59:24

That's the way I've always done it too, shysal - much easier!

Nonnie Wed 17-Sep-14 12:29:24

Perhaps you have a local specialised bra shop who could measure you and advise what is best?

bigmomma Wed 17-Sep-14 21:45:43

Sorry I haven't been back to thank you all for your advice and support (does that sound like a pun?) but I've been out all day. I'm sure that with all those bra suppliers to choose from I'll soon find something more suitable. Thank you all. x

Lona Sun 21-Sep-14 16:48:15

bigmomma I don't know if you've found anything suitable, but I've come across this in the Sunday magazine. There are 29 different types of front fastening bras on here.
www.fashionworld.co.uk/shop/lingerie/1/_/N-1ytvwd0/products/show.action?type=cmr&hnid=11117020#/shop/front-fastening/bras/lingerie/1/_/N-1ytvwcj/products/show.action?hnid=11192011&type=cmr

etheltbags1 Sun 21-Sep-14 22:29:23

Good luck with surgery and finding a bra suitable. x

annodomini Sun 21-Sep-14 23:06:17

I have trouble fastening a bra behind my back, so I fasten it and pull it up over my knees and bottom. Easier than manoeuvring it round after fastening it in front. I did try a number of front fastening ones but found them uniformly uncomfortable.

Anya Sun 21-Sep-14 23:10:58

Shysal & Ana me too.

hildajenniJ Sun 21-Sep-14 23:35:58

I gave up wearing a bra several months ago and noone noticed. The freedom is wonderful. I used to wear those pull on "genie" bras. They were very comfortable .

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