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Significant problems with 1 year old.

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Katek Wed 29-Oct-14 10:28:36

I don't know if this wouid be more appropriate over on MN but thought I would ask and see if our combined wisdom could come up with any answers. My friend's 1 year old ggs had a very traumatic birth with a cord presentation and emergency transfer to major hospital, while midwife basically tried to keep pressure off the cord. He was born by emergency c section but had inhaled meconium, had high blood gases and low oxgen readings. He was in neonatal for a period with a cold cap to reduce potential brain damage and although she's never been told what specifically, there also appeared ro be some concern regarding his heart.

This little boy is now a year old and has met his physical milestones, he's walking, has 8 teeth and eats well. He does have a degree of reflux which I thought shouid have passed by now, but his emotional and behavioural milestones do seem compromised. He does not take to anyone apart from his parents, has only just smiled at one of their friends whom he has known since birth, finds events out of the ordinary quite overwhelming, but worst of all is the screaming. He has currently been screaming intermittently for three days and will not sleep other than in short naps. His mother (who is very young) thinks this is temper which isn't really valid. He's screamed since birth and also curls himself up into a ball. He will sit and watch entire childrens' programmes with an unflinching stare-I find this quite odd, none of my dc or dgc would sit still for this long at 1. Docs cannot find a physical cause for his distress. Does this little one have developmental issues from his traumatic birth?

Mishap Wed 29-Oct-14 10:39:29

It sounds a though he needs to be seen and investigated further - has he seen a specialist paediatric neurologist? It is definitely not like a 1 year old to scream continuously and one cannot help feeling that he is in some distress that he is unable to articulate. If it were my child I would definitely be pressing for further investigation, even though some of that can be distressing in itself.

Alicethegreat Wed 29-Oct-14 11:42:49

With the Reflux as well I am wondering if he could have some digestive problems? especially curling up into a ball and screaming this may indicate pain ( possibly perceived as temper due to childs frustration?)

Jane10 Wed 29-Oct-14 12:03:39

Definitely needs to be seen asap. Paediatric neurology but also, as mentioned by Alicethegreat is there pain involved? Poor child. Poor parents - there may be trouble ahead.....................

Teetime Wed 29-Oct-14 12:10:36

Oh definitely investigations needed here and plenty of professional support for this young Mum.

Iam64 Wed 29-Oct-14 18:23:06

Katek, like others, I feel medical assessments are needed here. I sympathise with the mum, but agree with you, temper isn't something that would lead such a young child to scream. flowers

Katek Thu 30-Oct-14 10:25:05

Thank you all for your suggestions/input. It echoes my thoughts exactly. My friend is desperately concerned about ggs so she's going to try and broach the subject and at least get him to the GP.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 30-Oct-14 12:55:11

Perhaps his early days trauma did unsettle him. But what could be done about that. It happened. I would think he needs plenty of time, love and stimulation from his parents now. Probably a bit more even than most babies at that age. As for the telly watching, surely a lot of babies are mesmerised by C-Beebies.

Katek Thu 30-Oct-14 13:54:51

Think you're right about love and stimulation Jing, but tv thing is strange when you see it. It isn't cbeebies, he watches full movies and soaps.

TriciaF Thu 30-Oct-14 14:38:40

Screaming can sometimes be linked to hearing problems. How is his language development coming on? eg babbling, mama, dada etc and maybe a few nouns.
As others have said, he needs thorough checkups .

rosequartz Thu 30-Oct-14 15:11:36

I heard of someone who adopted a child of 18 months old; they had constant problems with him and were told that he had been plonked in front of the tv most of his waking hours, watching anything (including some blue movies).

An occasional half hour of cbeebies may not be too bad but I think that any more is asking for trouble.

I too think he needs medical assessment.

suevie34 Thu 30-Oct-14 16:42:55

I agree he needs to be under the care of the local Paediatric Unit. Perhaps Mum will need some support in asking the GP for a referral.

Better to look into the problems now rather than leaving it. It must be very scary for the young Mum but there is help and support out there.

I hope things improve for the family

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 30-Oct-14 18:15:03

It could be down to personality.

rosequartz Thu 30-Oct-14 19:55:23

A child who does not sleep except in short naps and wakes screaming has something wrong with him.

It could be that the poor child has something seriously wrong with him, it could be that he has digestive problems which need further investigation - or he could be having terrifying dreams which are a result of all the television he is watching.

Whatever it is, this child needs help.