jing I saw that video too and it's a shame the full version isn't the one that hit the news and went viral on the Internet. I'm sure she learned a lot from that experience.
I take what she said to mean military action can never be the whole solution to the Middle East problems (and elsewhere like Afghanistan and Pakistan) and that at some point the views of those involved will have to be heard and discussed. If this doesn't happen, the cycle of conflict will continue, along with poverty, disease, etc. Much easier said than done and IS would never be part of such a discussion, so it would be anyone else.
I don't believe that our beliefs should be imposed on anyone, but I do believe in religious freedom as long as no one is harmed and that doesn't just mean physically harmed. So for me that might mean getting agreement not to treat females as second class citizens (e.g. women can't drive in Saudi Arabia). Education as a basic right for all children up to a certain age. I can't explain this well and sound ridiculous, perhaps someone else can. Who could facilitate ideological discussions is beyond me too.