7'ish Months Later After Breakup

Thanks for your post kitspur and I wish you all the ver best x

Lovely to read so positive a post, all the best ?

Thank you Legs55, and very best to you. You've been through a lot.

Thank you very much everyone for my birthday wishes. It's lovely to receive such warm messages.

I'll enjoy your lovely gifts Disgruntled!

Kacee, it is a struggle at times, believe me, but at this stage of the game, I'm not feeling dreadful as I imagined I would. My counsellor was actually recommended to me by someone who I went to for reiki, who is also involved in japa meditation and lots of spiritual things. My counsellor is also a japa meditation leader and meditates from 5am to 7am every morning! She is also very spiritual, and although these disciplines weren't part of my counselling sessions, she was very clear that as a psychotherapist she would be in conflict if I became part of her jappa meditation class, she is very caring and just seemed to know/get me. She's an older woman, mid 50's, and I liked the fact that she's experienced life. I was very lucky to find the right counsellor the first time. I would recommend her, but I live in Ireland, so am probably quite far away from you. Maybe if you know someone who practices reiki, yoga or one of those type of therapies, they might be able to recommend a psychotherapist to you. We're all different and you shouldn't put a time scale on anything. I've told my counsellor that I'll see her again in few months time, as I'm by no means 100%, I just want to see how I get on for a while on my own. Take your time & don't put pressure on yourself. I take each day as it comes & don't get frustrated if I have a wobble, after all, we've a lot to recover from. Best wishes to you.

Oh well done, Kitspurr! Congratulations! And how lovely to read such a positive post. Thank you for making the effort and taking the time to let us know. I would like to send you flowers, a hug and a bottle of bubbly.

Best wishes for the future?

Have a great 50th.

well done you're picking up the pieces & getting on with life. It can be hard starting out again, I was widowed 3 years ago but had built up a nice social circle & made lots of friends (only moved there 2 1/2 years before my DH died)

I made the decision a year after he had been taken into Hospital (he never came home) that the time was ready to move to be nearer my DH,her Partner & GS. So I have had to start all over again, my social circle is gradually increasing & I hope to start joining a few clubs soon & WI - I'm looking forward to broadening my horizons.

I wish you all the best for the future keep smiling.

Well done you. I also remember your last post, you should be very proud of yourself.
Can i ask what type of councillor you saw as unfortunately nearly 2years down the line I am still struggling

Way to go, Kitspurr. I am very glad things are turning out well for you.

Such a positive post Kitspurr, well done for making the break. I did the same thing some years ago and have never regretted it.
Life is yours now go for it, bon courage.

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Well done! How far you have come you deserve a pat on the back. There is a good life to be enjoyed after all.

I remember reading your first post kitspurr....how far you have come in this time....enjoy your birthday and the zest for life that is showing in your post xx

Huge achievement kitspurr, so much courage, every good wish for the future, .

What a lovely post. I wish you happiness kitspurr.

Glad to hear you are doing OK. In seven months you are making great progress. Keep it up!!x

Thank you very much. Sweet dreams to all of you.

All good wishes for your birthday and for your new life!☺

Good news that you are getting stuck in to shaping a new life for yourself - well done!

Well done ! I hope you have a very happy new life . Remember you are always as good as anyone else, no-one is better than you. Take are and have a lovely birthday

What a lovely post to end the day on
Happy 50th Birthday
A new chapter begins
Lovely new memories

Onwards and upwards from now on.
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