Some of you may remember that 11 months ago I posted about my sil declaring that he had discovered that he was 'sexually attracted to men '(his words) so would be divorcing my daughter.
They had been married for 17 years and have 2 young children.
For practical reasons they remained in the (tied))marital home until July, then he moved to a new appointment just over an hour away.
Dd and children moved into their new home 3 minutes walk away from us.
Dd now works 3 days a week---financially she will have to increase hours/find another job as soon as possible---- and I do school runs etc
He visits the children twice a week, picking them up from school and brings them to us where he cooks their tea and takes them to their evening activities.
Occasionally he stays here overnight if it gives him more opportunity to spend special time with the children (overnight Christmas night after being with us all for lunch and the rest of Christmas day.)
When he is actually with us, it's more or less fine, when he isn't I am still resentful at what he has, and still is, putting Dd through.
She is being so strong, always putting the children first, but also finding some time for herself twice a week for her own interests.
The last 2 days have been soooo hard
What do you think would go well with coasters like this?
apple trees not flowering this year. Anyone else?