I think you al thinkt he same as me....the trouble wit the move is where she is now is a lovely detached 2 bed house small and modern with lovely big garden..her rent is £525 a month plus bills and debt she got into.so very little left. also has to run her car.
The house sh is moving to is an older house but has big garden 4 bed rooms quite oldfahioshoiend but that was the style of it...we have worked hard and changed all the dark dingy paintwork to lovely glossy whiet and magnolis walls...etc she is ahving to look for another property to accomodate his 3 lads who are ermm bit unruly no dicapline..etc (you cant really take them all out to an eating place, apart from Mcdonals etc as they would not behave)...of course they have had upset of dad leaving but it ws the um that told him to go...... daughter has forked out money for his petrol £80 on a few occasions then me!! yes me!! have had to pay for her childcare!! hmmmm but we all do it dont we......I have just heard from her and she is going to move to the new house with the new chap as she has no otehr alternatives.... hopefully he will stick to this job and they wil half the rent bills etc and she will be able to save up enough to maybe move back out if things dont work out....I am painting him black but he is not a bad lad..he is just so slow and laid back and not used to getting on with things..just sits n watched the world go by...where as daughter is organised etc..he is good hearted enough but he isnt a challange!!!! (and we all like a challange dont we).....she doesnt wnat to move in with him...but cant stay where she is as she has no money left after her monthly wage...so we will see..so looks like I am going to carry on painting ... just get the basic finished as I dont want to spend money on wallpaper so i will get the emulsion done.....I know wht she really wants is to get back with her sons dad and she has always wanted another child she has good job etc.....she has told me this morning she is so unhappy/misarable etc she has got cystytis again ..as I think that maybe a sighn of being run down..so she off to docs later..
thanks for all your kind words... what we do without gransnet ??
ok I will put my probelms to bed for a while now..and lets see if we can sort anyone elses out thanks for listening...
What do you think would go well with coasters like this?