My husband has had enough of his controlling mother and now ignores all her calls and text messages and somehow she sees that it is me MAKING him.
Before he ignored them, she would call and if he was busy and did not get to answer it – she would start phoning all the phones (the main line, my mobile and his until he answered) as if something has happened and you think someone has died, to find out she is stressed because she cant get hold of him.
It drove him so mad that he changed our house number and never passed it on to her and I changed my mobile number too as was sick of being accused of keeping him all to myself.
Now all the calls are made to his mobile, and all calls and txts are made during working hours (when he is at work and so am I) – and yet I apparently don’t allow him contact with his family.
Would just love for my husband to actually tell them it was HIM who wanted us to move area’s to get away from it all – not me!!!
Why cant they see that its because they drive him mad – she has pushed him away all on her own!
And why cant he be man enough to tell them that too – why take the easy option and just let them keep blaming me!
I think MIL’s and DIL’s fall out because
A) Their son cant man up and tell them the truth
B) MIL’s think their precious son would never behave that way
And the poor DIL just ends up getting the blame because one side is too weak and the other is just blind!!!!!
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