before she tries to conceive again after we lost DGS2 in January when he was only two weeks' old. The two weeks that he was with us were so incredibly difficult and stressful and horrible for DS1 and DDIL and the six months or so since have not exactly been a walk in the park for them either. They have both been so incredible at trying to make sure that they face everything full on and together as a couple, but.... we mums know that what DDIL has had to face and will face every single day is going to be different to that of DS1 - physically, mentally and emotionally. She has also not exactly been in the best of health understandably enough but is so desparate for a baby. DS1 is so worried about DDIL. Anyway they had what they called a 'chemical pregnancy' last month which appears to have been a very early miscarriage - naively had no idea what this was!
It is all such a worry but DDIL is our main concern especially as she suffered some pregnancy related health issues during her last pregnancy which really need to be investigated and which they cannot do if there is any chance of her being pregnant. I know that there is nothing that I can say (being a MIL and all that) but as we love her dearly we want her to be... well I would say happy but that is difficult at the moment.... in a better place, and we also want DS1 not to have extra worry and stress on top of his own feelings etc.
Apologies, but just needed to get off my chest.
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